Okay, so I really like this boy. I want to ask him out, but I'm so afraid of heartbreak that it is holding me back from asking him out. What should I do?
2007-03-28 11:58:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would it be out of line to invite him for dinner? Toss in the idea of a card game if this seems to strong. Imagine if you will. Softly playing is a sing you know he enjoys and the rooms have a faint scent from a candle lit in the living room. The smell of a nice dish tantalizes from the kitchen.
Can we toss in a glass of wine before dinner? Personally I love it when a woman dolls up before going out but when at home there is nothing like the simplicity of a oversized shirt or sweater and some nice fitting sweat pants.
What I am offering is to keep it comfortable. Let the mood slowly find itself as the night progresses. You can play on his senses one at a time. Listen to his words closely, for if you are right, he will offer something. See if you can have him offering the first real words as you are seemingly just being a wonderful friend. He will be feeding upon your responses to everything he says.
Wishing you well and I am sorry I have nothing more to offer.
God Bless
The Trembling Man
2007-03-29 19:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by TremblingMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make sure he has an interest in you as well before you do anything. once you find out whether or not he's interested, then all you have to do is ask!
2007-03-28 12:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by socal_rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋