Ok i have been dating this girl she is nice and all the sex is great but im not in love with her or feel like i ever can be. i think this relation ship has lated this long due to that fact that sex is great how should i end this with out it turning out to be messy
2007-03-28 11:45:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's ALREADY messy...
This is why sex complicates everything.
Just be honest with her.
And don't have sex unless you're married....
2007-03-28 11:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you cowboy... Most guys would stick around just for the great sex until another should come along. And some guys would even think "nice girl + great sex" is a pretty good deal. Yet you are "looking to be in-love." Fess up, what is really wrong with her? ....In any case, sounds like you don't want to look like a louse after having your good time. Well, if you are truly tired of the good time and are really ready to call it quits (not make her a back burner booty call ), I suggest you speak with her in person and tell her like a man. She will be pissed off. Expect that. No one likes to get dumped. But tell her that you want to be fair with her and not play with her emotions. She will hate you, let her. It is only natural. There is no real nice way to dump anyone. You can only be honest yet sensitive and then, really move on so they can get over you. That is the truly decent thing to do.
2007-03-28 18:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the most unmessy way is to get it over and done with. There is no right, or nice way to do it, don't take her on a date to do it, she may think it's really nice and then get let down, so just do it when nothing special is happening. You could stay with her and get counselling to see if you have a intimacy problem. Maybe your not being open enough, it would hold you back even more than your relationship back if you have something you want to let out. If there is something you want to let out but are scared to do, once it is done you may feel love straight away, you may be hiding behind your fears. But if there is something you are scared to say, you'll have to get courage your own way.
2007-03-28 19:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her that you are having some mixed feeling and need to think about it for a day or two then tell her that thins arentgoing the way you planed
2007-03-28 18:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by hockeylova#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how u look, she was a whore bc she knew the only reason.. just end it,, besides she probably won't care, you can get anyone who likes sex around the corner
2007-03-28 18:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by mamuca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it before she tells you she's pregnant. Stop worrying about how you'll look and worry about how you're being.
2007-03-28 18:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will hurt her anyway you do this... so be honest with her and tell her how you feel.. she will be pissed and feel used do not try to explain yourself after she is mad.. just say bye and remain friends if you can... she will eventually learn to see that you were not meant to be... good luck..
2007-03-28 18:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and tell her straight out!Don't do it over the phone.Don't do it at your house.There isn't really a real way to tell a girl you want to break-up but you got to do it sometimes!
2007-03-28 18:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her da samething u wrote!
2007-03-28 18:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋