Getting A Girl?

Question

I'm a pretty shy guy. I rarily talk to girls and when I do its only for like a minute or so. How do I go farther than this?

I'm 17 and a junior in High School. I figured I better start trying to get a girl now or I never will. Not to say that I would'nt try when I'm older I'd just like to start now.

Answer 1

talk to them some ask them questions and answer their questions,so you can have a conversation

Answer 2

Anyone that says be yourself don't listen to. You have been yourself for 17 years and so far it has not been working. You need to change your entire approach. Anything you were doing before do the exact opposite. You think women want the nice guy...your wrong they want the jerk that treats them poorly. You probably sit in the hallway at school and think how is this guy getting that girl he is such an *#!hole. The thing is women like that. One of these days you'll realize it and change your approach. Also use humor, any type the more obnoxious the better.

Answer 3

Just be yourself. Confidence is the key. Just talk about anything that pops up in your head and try not to be shy because if your outgoing then she will feel more comfortable and talk to you more. Good Luck!

Answer 4

I have a huge problem with this man dont worry it will happen eventually I cant talk to girls for more than a minute either i know what ur feeling

Answer 5

Just be yourself and have a sence of hummor. If you stumble over your words just laugh at yourself. Keep trying you will get the hang of it. Just rember girls don't bite and if they do talk to someone else. and forget about them.

Answer 6

you gotta get some confidence kid. its key to win the ladies. think of all the great things about yourself before you go up to a girl and try to show her those things that make you so great. Sometimes you gotta fake it to make it. life is a game play it up. step out of your shel and pretend for that one time that you are the greatest.

Answer 7

Well, movies are always good, look for something that has both of your interests included. Find out what kind of things she likes, then go do something that includes that.

Answer 8

step out of your little cardbord box and talk to them,
girls dont like shy guys that wont talk..
they also dont like mean obnoxious guys that act immature.... so BE YOURSELF!
just start sitting by them and talk alot, but take it step by step.
just come out of your box!
it seem hard ,but afterwards you'll thank me cuz its better when your out if it!!!!

GOOD LUCK.... HOPE I HELPED <3

Answer 9

Dude, my wife asked me out first. Don't worry, it'll all come together. You're young, don't get too stressed. And remember, you have to listen to them, ask them questions, don't talk about yourself too much

Answer 10

build self esteem and confidense by socializing more often around ppl u feel talking to normally