Girls are just as much as liars as boys. You need to seriously get over yourself. Humans in general lie. I know some girls who lie about stupid things too.
2007-03-28 11:18:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Lying is never good. And this isn't just because you're swimming in some very murky ethical waters and should be demanding higher standards from yourself. It's also because it's all too easy to get tangled in a web of deceit from which it grows harder and harder to extricate yourself, as lies compound on more lies. Lying just doesn't work, and it's not the way any man should conduct his affairs...
...except when it comes to women. With the females of the species, it's a completely different ballgame. The gulf between the sexes -- misunderstandings, miscommunications and misrepresentations -- hasn't changed much over the years, despite the self-serving attempts of "feminism."
Women are certainly not above telling "white lies," or even bald-faced ones, if it serves their purposes ("size doesn't matter," "we can still be friends,"), while at the same time demanding total honesty from men.lying is smartSo should you always be honest with her? The answer is no -- not if you know what's good for you. The truth is, you can't afford to always tell the truth if you want to keep your relationship healthy. Sometimes you just have to hedge your bets a little with a little creative sugarcoating.
Women say they want men to be honest, but if you are, the only thing you'll be going home with is an armful of DVDs from the back room of the video store. The truth is, women force men to lie. The majority of women out there won't even bother to have a conversation with a man unless he has the right job, owns a house in a geographically-desirable area, and earns a large salary.
So if the average guy wants to score a date, he's compelled to "upgrade" his job description a few increments or pretend his BMW's in the shop just to get a woman's digits.
A man will be constrained to submerge his true personality and adjust his opinions in the hope of getting a little sex. And instead of allowing men to express themselves openly and honestly, most women force men to be "politically correct," sometimes even at the threat of losing their jobs.
This isn't honesty -- it's catering to an extremely sexist society, biased toward women. Of course, she'll wear makeup, dye her hair, and put on a padded bra, and it won't even occur to her that she's deceiving anyone (including herself).
So if you want to start dating, or keep a relationship up and running, you're going to have to tread carefully through this minefield of her creation. Simply put, if you want to keep her happy and
2007-03-28 11:32:39
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answered by TBONE 4
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Everyone lies, there is no rhyme or reason as to whys. Its human nature and those who say they don't lie are liars. So don't worry about it too much, just take mental notes and whenever possible try to catch a liar mid-lie and call them out. See if that changes their behavior.
By the way...i don't lie.
2007-03-28 11:26:20
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answered by FearLessPrice 2
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Sweetie,by "boys" i am assuming you mean the younger male population.They are not mature enough to handle a relationship.They try to be "popular" with their guy friends,so they try to date and play as many females as possible.Once they get older,they are not too much better.I have to be honest,there are those nice guys.You cant give up in finding them,reguardless as to how the younger "boys" treat you or act.You have to keep your head high and learn that you dont want that!Good luck hun,and have a good evening!
2007-03-28 11:26:08
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answered by Anonymous
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It is not just boys that lie... Seems to be a tradition with many... I think rather than worry about the "why's," which might be many, we should committ to not indulging in lies ourselves. It is a horrible, very counter-productive habit to get into, and definitely a way to ruin any relationship in life.
2007-03-28 11:22:52
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answered by Just a writer at the sea... 3
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Us guys have more issues than lying, haha, funny coming from an honest one like me...but sometimes they lie because they don't wanna hurt someone. BUT GIRLS LIE TOO!! It's more a situational thing than a gender thing
2007-03-28 11:54:12
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answered by Mr.Optimist 2
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Well I want to say it's in their DNA cause ALL of them lie. We do too but most of the time is because we want to keep them. Ironic huh. They lie cause we're blind and they insecurity is very great.
2007-03-28 11:18:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Girls I Need Your Help On Boys?!?
2016-11-15 00:47:27
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answered by Aurora 5
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Pokemon black and White friend codes?:)?
2017-02-16 21:17:57
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answered by ? 6
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EVERYONE lies. I've had several women lie to my face about things that were SO CLEAR that they had to know that I knew. And one of them, when I pointed it out to her, turned red and told ANOTHER lie (and it was about something stupid; who she sent an e-mail to). So it's all about being defensive, not about guys/girls.
2007-03-28 11:19:27
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answered by Dr_Adam_Bricker 3
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