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I am 16 years old. No boys really want a relationship with me I think because of my forehead. I have a nice shape and I think thats what makes them talk to me. My butt breasts and hips. They usually only want sex but I dont give it. Should I start since they never want a realtionship anyway? My face is pretty to me but I dont know what they see not to think so. I just have a larger forehead. Should I just give it up to them just to do it since they are not going to like me anyhow. I see it as might as well. i need help/advice please.

2007-03-28 11:02:56 · 35 answers · asked by lovinbroooklyn 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

35 answers

don't do it

2007-03-28 11:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by PokGai 2 · 1 0

God forbid if you give up yourself just to get guys to like you. I hate to put it this way, but you may as well be a street walker if that's the case.Sorry to be so blunt,and this is coming from a man. I will tell you this, don't have sex with any guys just to make him like you, chances are they won't anyway. Save yourself for someone who really in truly cares and loves you no matter what size your forehead is. The most important thing to remember is that you like yourself and don't worry about what others may think. If guys want to look at your butt and breast fine don't worry about it. They been doing that for years and your not the only female that is being observed in that fashion. Respect yourself, love yourself no matter what. Forget about having sex with every Tom, Dick and Harry. You should know better than that.

2007-03-28 11:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The problem is your brain, not your forehead. Trust me, I have never seen anyone with such a terrible forehead that no one could possibly ever be attracted to them... and you're probably the only person who thinks your foreheard is too big. If the rest of your body is nice, trust me, guys ain't looking at your forehead.

Do NOT just start having sex - what would you get out of it? If these losers don't want a relationship with you anyway, they won't suddenly think better of you just because you spread your legs for them. You'll just end up being the town slut, and for what?

The truth is, honey, it's hard for other people to like you if YOU don't like you. If you're so convinced you're ugly and worthless, it's going to be hard for other people to believe otherwise, or to covince you otherwise. You need to start telling yourself that you are pretty, and worthwhile, and you can respect and love yourself even without a boyfriend.

And don't worry, you're only at the start of your dating life and have plenty of time to find a decent boyfriend - plenty of people don't start serious relationships until well into their 20s.

2007-03-28 11:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0 0

Just because is not a good reason to have sex, especially for the first time. Your only 16, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend and have a relationship. You will probably have a few relationships before you decide to stay with one person (marriage or not). If a guy doesn't want a relationship, its because he's 'just not that in to you'. Find a guy that is, and is worth giving up your virginity for (when the both of you are completely ready).

2007-03-28 11:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by MsCoconut 2 · 1 0

Don't give ANYONE sex, just to get them to like you, because it won't work. Once they get between your beautiful legs, then they don't give a damn, and they will move on to the next girl.
Then, the first guy will spread rumors about you, and no one will want to be your friend. It just isn't worth it.
Keep that sex for the guy that will truely love you, for who you are, not what you will give them. That is the greatest gift that you can give any guy, so be very selective with who you give it to. I'm sure that your face is pretty, so start thinking how pretty you really are, and don't worry about finding a boyfriend, they will come fast enough.

2007-03-28 11:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Girl you are 16, you need to worry about your education. No don't sleep with them,what do you want a disease that can keep you busy regretting having sex for the rest of your life.Find your self a local clinic and get informed on sex and disease,that will make you change your mind. You also need to build up your own self esteem.There I've given you something to do until your about at least 21.

2007-03-28 11:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by MS 3 · 2 0

don't give sex to anyone unless they love you without sex. They have to love you for you first even when they know they are not getting any sex. Then after they reach this point you can think about having sex. If you act sexy and show some skin on your butt and your breasts and be nice. Some man will fall in love with you before getting any sex.

2007-03-28 11:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no u shouldnt have sexs with them, is that the only solution that u could think of... guys will be guys and they will only think about sexs... u need to have more self esteem and self confidence, u will find the right guy who will madly fall in love wit you, u just have to wait, it may not happen today, it may not happen tomorrow but it wil happen and wen it happens u will be happy.. so no dont have sexs just yet and yu are only 16... there is more to life the boys, and if u are pretty then u should have pretty go brain as well so strat using ur brins.

2007-03-28 11:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 1 0

YOu know sleeping around does not make people like you, then they just use you as a easy lay
why would you set your self up for that..... I adopted a boy from a girl that spoke like this.... she had 5 kids all 5 kids unwanted and all 5 kids given up for adoption.........
If you have a BIG FORHEAD cut your hair make bangs, cover up the big forhead
BUT.... now your reputation is not that easy to cover up sweetie... Think about it adn your question is inmature and that says your no where near ready for sex
WHEN ITS TIME AND IT IS RIGHT
THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG
you never do any thing that stupid to get a boy to like you

2007-03-28 11:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 1 0

Hey! Wake up there not going to like/love you if you have sex with them. There gonan do it with you and after all that there not gonna know who you are! So whatever you do please do not do it with them. I'm going to be 21 in 1 week and i'm a virgin i'm saving till I get married and I also have a bf that i've been with for 7months now. You get more respect from your bf or boys in general just cuz you feel they'll like you if you have sex with them. like i said do not do it. There just going to talk about you. Do you want a bad Reputation? face it u'll meet someone your young. Don't ruin your chances by having sex with anyone.

2007-03-28 11:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mir 1 · 1 0

No I think you should join a girl group in your area to get you more self esteem.You body is more worth then that girl.Wake up.Do not give these boy the satifaction to take a avantage of you like that.I think you should love your self also respect yourself.The way to give up your body to them just gonna hurt you in the long run.Please do not do that.Many boys respect a girl more when they not given up their body.Plus you never know who likes you and not telling you yet.

2007-03-28 11:10:29 · answer #11 · answered by baby 4 · 1 0

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