i liked this girl for a while and she liked me back. but in our science class she sits across a guy that liked her. i didn't let this bother me until a few days ago when she got with him without telling me. i sorta had the idea she got over me and started to like him because i catch her glancing at him in our other class. it just kills me when i see them hold hands and stuff and it just seems that she doesn't care for me anymore.
i just feel depressed and i don't know how to get over it.
help out please?
2007-03-28 11:02:37 · 8 answers · asked by PokGai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okai my advise for you is that you need to be strong...Just think of it this way her loosing you didn't even bothered her, so why let it bother you... Yeah right now its not hitting her yet but time will tell.... I was in that situation where i broke up with my recent relationship and i was so drained with tears and he knew that i was crying cuz of him but he didn't care so i change my whole view and change myself to become stronger, keeping myself occupied and keeping him out of my mind and now the table turns and his wanting me back but in returned i realized it was just a waste of time for tears for him...So just keep your self cool... The table might turn around on her and sooner later you'd find yourself not wanting her and getting someone even better.... =)
2007-03-28 11:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hype 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, the power of young love. It is beautiful to experience it but if it does not work out, it hurts like a knife.
To experience pure love, both of you must have the same feelings for each other. If you love her and she can't reciprocate it, it's better to move on. What's important is you experience this beautiful feelings we called Love.
In time, you will find someone who is right for you. YOu will just look back at this and laugh about it.
Learn to accept what's happening now. What matters is you become a stronger person for learning to accept it as a man.
2007-03-28 11:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by mbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry what your going through right now. you could say i'm going through the same thing you are right now. me and my boyfriend broke up months go. we loved each other so much and there was no way you could pull us apart. then one day it ended. i didn't see it coming. it's hurts me also to see him with other girls. holding hands and talk of spending time togehter. given time it heals all wounds. i'm still healing from my break up. it's does really hurt. to this day i still love him with all my heart. but there is nothing i can do to change the way i feel about him. if you feel that you can handle it you should try an date other girls. it might help heal your wounds. it can also get your mind off her. but if you dont feel that you should start dating then dont. dont rush into something that your not ready for. just remember given time heals all wounds. i hope this helps you. find something that makes you happy an that can also help heal your wounds.
2007-03-28 11:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is that you will get over this. The bad news is the best remedy is time. You may try going for another girl to get your mind off this.
2007-03-28 11:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to ride it out and rise above it.
You are both still in school - so you are doing the things that young people do.
Don't show her a sad puppy dog. Show her that you are a winner.
Either she will be attracted to your confidence - or another girl will!
Best wishes.
2007-03-28 11:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been there and done that so i know how it feels, i got depressed and all. go out with ur friends, do wut u like to do, go meet new ppl, shes not the only gurl out there 4 u, if it wasnt meant to be then it wasnt. dont get depressed over a gurl, keep ur head high and i know u will make it. if u need to talk to anybody u can email me at mdemidenko@verizon.net and good luck :)
2007-03-28 11:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by marta d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL,RIGHT KNOW YOUR HEART IS BLEEDING,I KNOW IT HURT I HAD A BROKEN HEART FOR SO LONG ,3 MONTHS.I MY HEART WAS CRUSHED INTO MILLION PIECES WHEN I FOUND OUT MY GUY WANTED TO GET WITH ANOTHER GIRL AND BREAK UP WITH ME.FINDING ANOTHER GIRL WILL HELP YOU HEAL FASTER THAN JUST LETTING TOME PASS BY,I HEALED WHEN I WAS TALKING TO MY EX BEFORE HIM,WELL BCUZ MY EX STILL LOVED ME AND STILL DOES.I LOVE HIM TOO FOR BEING THEIR FOR ME WHEN I CRIED ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,HE DIDNT MIND,HE JUST WANTED TO HELP ME AND SAID IT WILL BE OK.WHAT DOESENT KILL YOU JUST MAKES YOU STRONGER.ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS FIND SOMEONE ELSE ,IF SHE CHOSE ANOTHER GUY THAN THAT MEANS SHE DOESENT LIKE YOU,MOVE ON THERE IS ANOTHER GIRL OUT THERE WHICH WILL LIKE YOU
2007-03-28 11:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal all wounds...
2007-03-28 11:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by angelsncali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋