As a man myself, I'd say no, he won't change into a faithful boyfriend/husband. I certainly never will ;)
Only kidding. No, I think that a person who is immoral is immoral, and that gets determined early on. The same applies to women.
2007-03-28 11:09:14
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answered by Anonymous
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This is such a loaded, simplistic question that there are no answers. Can they? Yes, they have the capacity to. Everyone does. Do they? Yes, men and people do change. Does he WANT to at that particular point in his life and is he willing to do what it takes? That's a different question. That's the only question that matters.
The reason this can't be answered in a simple way is because the nature, age, and circumstances of that particular man in question have to be taken into consideration. Is this someone young and just starting out exploring relationships? Is this someone older and understands himself and who he really is? What are the stakes involved and does he really understand what they are? Does he care or want to stay in that particular relationship? Is this a man searching for himself in what is commonly labeled a mid-life crisis? Is there some reason in the psychodynamics of his mind that makes him act this way? Does he know it? Is he willing to seek counseling to recognize and resolve it? Is he willing to seek couples therapy to work with the partner to repair the damaged trust? Ultimately, it comes down to whether he wants to and have the confidence and hope to want to. He has the capability if he wants to use it.
I'm sorry to give you more questions than any answer, but it really isn't that simple to say "once a cheat, always a cheat" or any other generalization. There are none.
If this is someone you are involved with, then the next thing that ought to happen is couples counseling. Let a professional counselor help you and him. There is nothing wrong and it is not a mark of failure to seek help in relationships.
2007-03-28 18:26:45
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answered by Elisa 4
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This is coming from a man: A man says he can change, but more than likely he will continue to do the same old dumb things. Men always say what women want to hear, but don't always mean it, especially when it comes to change. Likewise for a woman, if the roles were reversed, I would say that a woman would say she would change, but go right back to doing the same old things again.
2007-03-28 18:08:29
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answered by droopydog88 3
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I personally think it will always be there i dont think i have ever been with a guy that had changed for me but that is my perspective People may think different
2007-03-28 18:10:15
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answered by Monica 2
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id say a drunk 1 nite stand could be forgiven but a full blown affair is unforgivable. the knew exactly what they wr doin. i dont think men like this can change. if u forgave them i dont think u could eva trust them so your relationship would be aweful
2007-03-28 18:10:08
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answered by petal 1
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Well, it depends...if they're young and in highschool, then yeah...eventually they will change, but if they're adults, then it could be harder. People can change if they really want too and some are too blind to notice when they need to change.
2007-03-28 18:09:35
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answered by Aki F. 5
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People only change if they really want to
2007-03-28 18:06:33
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answered by angelsncali 2
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Always happens. Will not change.
2007-03-28 18:06:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Not all men can,sometimes they try but they can't or sometimes they don't even try. That depends,but if you really trust him ,then you should give him a chance.
2007-03-28 18:07:01
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answered by Anonymous
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No, probly not, especially if he's young. He doesn't want to settle down. If that's what you want find a different guy.
2007-03-28 18:06:47
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answered by Brian D 2
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