i was dating a guy for just under a year.he really loved me and i loved him.however,we had our fair share of ups and downs but got through them,and it was alot.however,he suddenly got jealous and possessive,and started swearing and shouting at me.This all happened in oneweekend,and although it may seem drastic for me to leave him,i felt it the right thing to do.However,if he worked out our issues,there was hope.He went away and messed it up though so i told him then it was over for good.he cried in all our friends arms saying he loved and missed me,and now 3 weeks later,he is with another girl,and because we are part of the same friend group,i need to see this all the time.there is no way i could've jumped into anything after everything.i dont love him anymore,but he keeps trying to talk to me.it's making me cry alot even though i don't love him.plus the girl's friends are being bitchy to me.what do u think of what he's done?the situation?
2007-03-28 11:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, you need to find another guy, and let him know he ain't the only one. Move on with your life, find the right guy, just how you found him. Cut him off if he tries to talk to you back. Show him you are happy, and that you have moved on. Make new friends, go out, go to the book store, its a good idea to meet good people.
2007-03-28 11:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to get your attention. It's like he's saying "see, someone wants me, so I'm not as bad as you think." The girl's friends are being bitchy to you because you are the ex. Believe me, it makes sense to them. Be proud of yourself that you had the strength to walk away before it got worse. And it would have gotten worse.
So, he's crying on everybodies shoulders saying how much he loves you? Then he starts bringing someone else around? He's got the I.Q. of a table leg. Be glad you're out of it, and that he's someone elses problem now.
Take it one day at a time, and you'll be o.k.
Just be a little patient with yourself. Good luck, and stay strong.
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2007-03-28 11:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Tiilynn♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well, apparently if you love someone once, apart of you will always love them. Its hard to let someone go... even when they are a loser! I had my own problems with that too, the father of my son and I got into a big fight when I was pregnant and I left him... and while we weren't dating he was ontop of some other broad. We got back together (BIG MISTAKE) and now if it wern't for the fact he gave me the most beautiful thing in the world (my son) I would hate him for what he did to me. I think now that looking back it was his really dumb way of showing he was scared about the commitment so he lashed out irrationally...
Seeing your ex. now is hard because it hurts what he did... Unfortunately we are women, and if we don't move on and pretend it doesn't bother us what The Ex does, we will be the target of poor judgement. Forget about him, and tell him you aren't interested in talking to him... and that you are moving on and don't him in your life still trying to drag you down! Be Strong! You can do it, if I did... I have confidence in ANYONE to!!!
2007-03-28 11:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by allisonbowler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and go and talk to ur other friends then if that dosnt work find a bf and most likely he will leave u alone!
2007-03-28 11:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a dum a**, get a restraining order and move on
2007-03-28 11:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋