i have a boyfriend we met at a catering job last october it was so perfect he had a 2 jobs very good,he was trying to pay his court bcuz he got in a car wreck last year, he was drunk ,well he is the best boyfriend i ever had i love him now.well this january we werent as talking as much he would not call me for a week then i talked to him about it then again he didnt call me again for two weeks bcuz he said he went to jail bcuz of a public fight,a month later which was this febuary he came to see me and two day later i didnt hear from him again untill last week,so which means we didnt talk for a month 1/2. he called me and told me he was in jail again bcuz he forgot his court day,i gave him another chance because he was really begging and he said he liked me more than any girl he has ever had,it was hard 2 me this time i havent seen him,well he lost his jobs,no money or nothing,he lives with his dad.i want to help him,i really care about him it does'nt matter 2 me if he broke.any advice
2007-03-28 10:58:17 · 5 answers · asked by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares how much money he has. You love him your not going to leave of something so stupid. But he seriously needs to get his stuff together. He's commited in a relationship sooner or later your going to get fed up his crap always getting in troubleand your going to leave him. Let him learn from his mistake talk to him where he'll listen to you. IN PERSON!
2007-03-28 11:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like is a maternal relationship you have with him.
He must grow up before be able to have a commitment with you and your life, are you save with a person who drive drunk and fight?
Love is for both side.what he can give you? No money now,ok is a bad moment he can find a job.
But ,what about his behaivor?
Listen to him and open your eyes.
Help him but you cant fix his life he must do it by himself.
2007-03-28 18:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by mariposa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he doesnt desrve you at all. if he hasnt talked to u in ages it means hes advidoing u and doenst like u but only saying it cause he doenst want to be lonely. lose this jackass and find a new one who talks to u everyday, spends time with u everyday and not advoids u
2007-03-28 18:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by marta d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him become his friend before u try anything
2007-03-28 18:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he's a loser
2007-03-28 18:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋