Not for erotic reasons, because he says I "need it". Last night I was out kinda late with my two friends, only until about midnight. I got home and my boyfriend was angry. I argued with him and we were very rude to each other. Since it was late, he announced that I would be receiving a spanking today when he got home from work. He said it would be bare butt and he assured me that my butt would be red by the end of it. I love him very much, but I do not want to be spanked. He has NEVER tried to spank me before or ever mentioned it. It's very spur of the moment. Please help :( I am 20 years old by the way.
2007-03-28 10:53:51 · 19 answers · asked by Jessi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter what he says, there's going to be an erotic element in there. Do what you can to enhance it - when arrives home hug him and tell him you know you deserve a spanking, but that you're sorry and will he please go easy on you. Seduce him into giving you the kind of spanking you'll enjoy. Could be the first of many, adding a whole new erotic dimension to your love life.
2007-03-28 21:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, I certainly believe that a spanking can be for reasons other than erotic, and it doesn't sound like your boyfriend is unfamiliar with spanking, from the terms that you used. It's not unusual for one member of a household to hold another accountable for misbehavior. This is referred to as "domestic discipline."
However, the one thing that separates domestic discipline from domestic violence is CONSENT. If you've never given that consent to be held accountable, then he shouldn't be laying a hand on you, or even hinting at it except in a playful light. If he really intends on spanking you against your will, then he probably doesn't really understand how adult spankings for discipline work, and shouldn't be trying it.
2007-03-31 08:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Make him a deal. He gets to spank you if you get to do the same for some crap that he finds inoffensive but you don't. No seriously, you both are equals - he has NO right to do any spanking whatsoever. Turn him in to the cops.
2007-03-28 18:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Meet him at the door wearing nothing, give him a hug and hand him a belt. Tell him you love him and you are ready for whatever it is he thinks you deserve. After he is done, promise not to be out late without him again.
2007-03-30 09:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hahahahahaha, you have got 2 b kidding! Take the spanking, you just might enjoy it...
2007-03-28 10:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by angelsncali 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe i shouldn't be answering this at all, but i feel that spanking will probably be more erotic than disciplinary....
2007-03-31 21:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
whenever me and my guy argue he tells me he is going to spank me, but i always like it. guys deal with things different than girls do. a guys solution to a problem, or after having a fight is to have sex because for them it makes everything ok. but if your bofriend is not wanting to spank you in the sexual way to need to get rid of him fast.
2007-03-28 11:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lulu 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't believe him when he tells you it's not for erotic reasons!
He's probably wanted to for a while and your being out late etc. has given him his chance.
If you don't want it, it's assault just like any other violence. Don't allow it!
2007-03-28 11:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Barry S 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lol, wow, um a spanking just might be what you need... but yes ... it will be erotic.... he wants to spice it up, as long as he is not hurting you... and your ok with it have fun
2007-03-29 09:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by lulubelle55555 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda creepy....it sounds like he's abusive to me...maybe he thinks one of you will get some *pleasure* out of it, or something...idk. If my bf did that, i would slap him...then again, i'm 14, so...it'd be kinda awkward at my age. I'd tell someone i can trust, like a friend...not one of the ones that you were out with though...
2007-03-28 11:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Meggie Liz! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋