Well, i think i love this girl. She is a really good friend of mine and i love everything about her. me and her have the same things in common, like Everything, and shes christian, does not cuss, likes the same music i do, i mean perfect for me. The thing is, one of her friends came to me and asked me if i thought she was cute, and i answered yes. I know her friend told her, and now when i hear her talking with other people about me i get the feeling she doesn't like me. But the wierd thing is she still seems like she likes me, and thier is nothing akward between us, even though she might know i like her. I am so confused on what to do, do i tell her, and she say no so our friendship would be akward or just wait it out? What do you guys think?
2007-03-28 10:50:08 · 22 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jeez just ask her out...
It isn't that hard :)
But you shouldn't have told her you liked her...
Friendships break that way
2007-03-28 10:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude, how long have you 2 been "just friends"? the longer u go without taking it to the next level the harder it gets. Also, the awkwardness is there right now, cuz YOU feel weird, right? Weird enuf to ask this Q anyway.... Not to be harsh, but I suggest u grow some b@llz and ask her out on a genuine date. Heres a tip: Ask her to go to a show/movie and dinner w/ you. If she says yes, by the end of the night you should know if theres anything more than friendship to be had.
2007-03-28 17:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by michael 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a go. Tell her how you feel and then she can tell you. Don't worry about it. What will be, will be. If she likes you then you are ahead, because now you know. If she doesn't like you then you are ahead again because now you know.
do you see the point? Get the information and you are wiser, the answer won't change anything but it will clear the air.
Good luck dude. PS-- Sure she likes you or else she wouldn't hang with you.
2007-03-28 17:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Fordman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say ride it out and let things settle down before approaching her about your feelings. maybe she feels weird and doesn't know how to act around you now in light of the new info. BUT...the friend wouldn't have asked you how you felt about her if the she wasn't interested. if she wasnt attracted to you....neither one of them would care if you thought she was cute. give it a day or two and ask her out or for a walk or something. get her alone for a bit and then talk to her about how you feel.
2007-03-28 17:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by TTerrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it....it's the best way to clear the air. Be mature about it if she turns you down and realize that she's still a good friend and that's all she'll be and move on from being more than that. There will be other girls that come down the road that will be "perfect" for you. You still can be friends.
2007-03-28 17:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can she be a "really good friend" and not like you at the same time? That's ridiculous.
Just ask her to dinner and have a heart to heart talk with her and do it without creeping her out. Just tell her what you think.
2007-03-28 17:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Grampa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how you feel she may tell you the same thing she may just need time to think about it just don't rush her. Don't leave it all bottled up or she will never know how you feel she may feel the same way
2007-03-28 17:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes just being friends. You'll get an honest answer, and it shouldn't be awkward. Just tell he the truth, that you really like her!
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 17:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Dana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is probably waiting on you to ask her out! She probably thinks you are shy and scared so thats why she is talking about you. Go for it man, what are you doing?
2007-03-28 17:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude i feel you , i went through the same exact thing this past summer . i was working at american eagle and thats where i met her, her name is gabi, i thought she was the most beautiful gorgeous girl that ha ever crossed my path. we got to know each other, i found out she was very religious and into sports which im into sports but at the time i hadnt goen to church for years. well she got to know me ,we would hang out all the time and one day like two months later i told her how i felt, we were on the phone at the time. well she gave me an answer i wasnt looking for , it wasnt that negative, she simply just told me she wasnt looking for a bf bc of church and her personal life. we kept on haging out ,when i met her she was very shy , quiet , not out going but after haging out with me she was very open with me like we would joke and talk about everything , dude i even stop swearing for her, it felt so right.... ok so time passed and by the time i knew it we were in the month of september, by that time i didnt think about being with her as a gf anymore bc i tryed 2 times , she gave me the same answer, plus i had met my present girl by then and gabi was out of my system...... well as i got to know michelle(my gf) as a friend , one night i asked michelle if she would like to join me to my friend mikes football game , and of course she said yes bc she liked me , well we made it official that night ... well i called Gabi to let her know the good news, thinking she would be happy for me, she paused and said in a cheesy kinda fake happy way "uhhh oh thats nice im happy for you congratulations" (few seconds later she said she had to go ) she hung up and never called me back , i tryed calling her for 3months straight and nothing, no answer, no emails, no more calling me at 3in the morning to talk to me bc she wasnt feeling good, NOTHING, i was bumd out bc i REALLY liked her but idk she was weird,...... look dude do what your heart tells you to , be a man and go let her know how you feel for her, then simply tell her , if she doesnt feel the same way its fine but your feelings for her will never change ... good luck bro
2007-03-28 18:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by hotguybmx760 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋