i love him soooooooooooooooooo much , can't imagine my life without him.. everyone i love is backing me up and helping me and i'm having my dream wedding!!! why, just tell me why this stress and anxiety feeling doesn't leave me alone??? i can't sleep and i have soooo much mood swings!!! starting to hate myself because of these negative feelings.. can someone help me????
2007-03-28 10:49:34 · 25 answers · asked by mograbi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I know it well. It is a sort of feeling of dread, right?
Your guy is a great person, you will soon be married to this great person. Everything is perfect but you feel it will be taken away from you for some reason, right? That is the anxiety. Also because your life will change after marriage. It is a huge step to take. It is an agreement between man and woman to hold only to one another and no one else.
Don;t worry. If you like, see your doctor about something to relax you and help you sleep. Otherwise....it is normal to feel this way. Look to your family and those who love and support you for help. Talk it out and you will feel much better. God Bless You and Yours!
2007-03-28 11:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Czech Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's TOTALLY normal. You are changing your entire life in the blink of an eye--you go from a Ms./Miss to a Mrs., you get a new last name, you move into a new home (most likely), you are the center of attention at a big event, you have a lot to plan and not a lot of time to do it, and it's a really stressful time! Every girl dreams about this big day and every girl wants it to be perfect, so, you are stressing about the details. It's normal!
Just know that at the end of the stressful party, is, hopefully, a wonderful marriage with a wonderful man.
2007-03-28 11:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by ms. teacher ft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! Think positive and try not to be so anxious and in control of your wedding plan. Everything will go well. Take long hot bubble baths to relax. Try taking two hour naps everyday it will help you to have more energy and less mood swings. Every day go for an hour walk by yourself. Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Hard work, and not cleverness, is the secret of success. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet. Enough trials to make you strong. Enough sorrow to keep you human. and enough hope to make you happy. Good luck.
2007-03-28 11:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weddings are stressful! They require a lot of money, time and effort! There's not a questioning of your love for your fiance, but it's the emphasis you're putting on the wedding.
Step back. Take a week off from planning. Realize that things ARE going to go wrong, but it's not going to be the end of your wedding.
Do you have a wedding coordinator? If this is stressing you out NOW, I would hire one to help you out. Worth the money.
2007-03-28 10:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are normal for first time bride. YOu want everything to be beautiful that's why you're stressing out. As long as you love that person you're going to marry, that's what really matters. This day is for you and for your fiance. Remember that there is no such thing as a "perfect" wedding so don't stressed out. Take it one day at a time, and learn to take a deep breath when you think you're stressing out.
REmember, your wedding day is the day you will declare your love for each other, it should be exciting and beautiful. I am happy for you.
2007-03-28 10:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by mbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the normal stress and fury from planning your big day. It's normal. Believe me, it's normal!! I've been there and done that!!
Try to relax as much as you can and don't get yourself freaked out. Enjoy your wedding, it will be your day to shine.
I look back on mine with fond memories and it's already been nearly 11 years ago. Still, I remember how stressed out I got there toward the end.
Have fun -- seriously have fun and enjoy the whole process! Congratulations to you! I'm sure you will be a beautiful bride and your friends and family will be so happy for you!
2007-03-28 10:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having "wedding jitters" which most brides go through. The groom may also be suffering from all kinds of anxieties, but may not show it. After the "I do's" are said, and you walk out arm and arm as Mr.& Mrs. somehow , all the jitters and anxieties disappear. Congartulations and have a great wedding and a Happy life together.
2007-03-28 10:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all CONGRATULATIONS!
I think everyone goes through this kind of stress when they get married. I know I did. I had all of these things that needed to be done and and I felt like I was the only one that was going to do them. I just couldn't wait for my wedding to be over. My advice to you is to take a deep breath and try to enjoy this time because it is over so quickly.
2007-03-28 11:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by anothermauri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I am going thru them my self and I don't have any help from any one. My aunt calls it the wedding blues. You'll be fine, take time to relax and not think of the wedding at all. It works for a Little while.
2007-03-28 11:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by MS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost congratulations on your wedding! i think what you are feeling is normal....everyone feels some type of anxiety and mood swings, because they have so many new emotions....i mean getting married changes a lot of things in so many different ways, but you will be fine and everything will turn out well....you will see :) good luck!
2007-03-28 10:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by bratt1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋