I've never had a bf, and every guy I tell I like him he ether dousn't speek to me,or runs away screaming, "ewwwww or Gross!" It hasn't really helped me confidence so....
...will someone help me?
2007-03-28 10:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will.
My name is Sophie. Blonde, slim, smart, not totally popular but whos counting? Anyways, I've never dated. Not a man on the face of this earth honey. And you know what?
Waiting isn't such a drag.
In fact waiting ROCKS!! I'm not saying be scared of boys (flirting tips are coming your way in a sec) but love the life without 'em in it! My guy friend said to me today "Sof, I pity you. What do you do with your life without a date?" And I said
"H*** of a lot more than you, dude"
I chill with my girls, hit the movies, dinners, malls...life rules!
So let me give you some tips on enjoying life and yourself:
Make a mix CD of happy to be single songs (I Don't Need a Man for one) or just plain non-love songs. Helps get your mind off your crush and on yourself...in a positive way. Also, talk to pals about other things than boys (the horror!) like flicks and chips!
Wanna flirt? Then work these:
-Point your feet towards him
-Prolonged (not creepy) eye contact
-Walk like you know your hot (guys like it!)
<33 U gO GuRl!!<33
2007-03-28 10:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go around telling every guy you like, that you like him. Be a little more mysterious. And the best way to love is friendship. Stop caring so much about having a boyfriend, and just be friends with people, maybe that will spark something later on.
2007-03-28 10:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by MsCoconut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off how old are you?
if its under like 10 then honey you'll will have one soon
i know what it feels like to be rejected it hurts
(i was rejected last night =[ !!!)
but god help you through all of it
the right guy will come along soon
and it might take a while to find him
just wait it out
u are probably a beautiful girl
and you must keep telling yourself that
dont ever let a guy get to you at all.
well hon i hope i helped
2007-03-28 10:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by ELMO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget those idiots. Clearly if someone says "eww" or "gross" they're just rude people and have no consideration for human beings. Don't worry, I promise you one day you'll find someone. Just be yourself, and in time, you'll get the right person for you. These kind of idiots don't deserve you.
2007-03-28 10:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 17 and i just had my first boyfriend in October but i never told him he was my first...so maybe dont tell right away and guys that run-away seem like they aren't really interested in you
b/c my boyfriend even if i would have told him he's the kind of guy that wouldnt care...maybe find like that or find someone else that hasnt dated yet
2007-03-28 10:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by raerae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's the thing, one day you will find that boy that loves you. But you never mentioned your age. I assume middle school.
2007-03-28 10:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by NOT USING Y!A ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should give him time! boys at a certian age act a certain way. so you should probly start out talking to him and grow a friendship!
2007-03-28 10:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys suck... if they are still in the "coodies stage" then there are imature....if a guy does that he is probably saying YES! in his mind or being mean just because his friends are around him and he wants to act "cool"
2007-03-28 10:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mooey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE TRY DRESSING UP OR YOU KNOW TALKING TO MORE PEOPLE OR DONT CHANGE YOURSELF AT ALL....THERE ALWAYS A PERSON OUT THERE FOR YOU.
2007-03-28 10:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋