Imagine you are a pretty girl who met a very intelligent guy you found to be very interesting. You started going out with him and each week would go with him to the local bar with a bunch of his friends. You were very shy and nothing could change that but he would try and change you to become more open and kept saying confidence is gorgeous. You feel insecure and even more anxious. Over time you get to know the guy well and stick it out but he is constantly telling you that you're hot and wanting to change things about you. He criticises your family and friends (e.g your friend has a baby and all he says is poor father who would want to have one of those ugly little creatures) you know yourself you want children. It has been 2 1/2 years of your relationship and there have been good points but alot more bad points. He criticises your new job when you agree to work at it. he never wants to meet your parents and forces you on countless occasions to have sex. he has a nasty personality and
2007-03-28
10:28:05
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Ava G
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..laughs at anyone in pain. he is over confident and not attractive. He is very smart and he thinks everyone should think the way he is. You try to talk to him about your concerns and that u are miserable. you finally tell him he isn't what you want and he turns the whole thing around to be your fault and he shouldn't have been with you for that long. You go through a period (only a week or 2) where you feel really angry with him and more yourself for being with him for so long. Now however you are happy to be free. you have nothing to do with him. When it comes to thinking of a new relationship you are scared and your self confidence has dropped alot. If someone calls you hot you feel they only want your looks and don't know the real you. you are very picky with the guy you want.
What do u think of the guy and also the girl in this relationship? How would u have reacted being the girl (if you let it last that long instead of leaving earlier!) honest answers please
2007-03-28
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i would have broken up with him the second he laughed at someone in pain, or told me my friend has an ugly baby. he seems like the biggest jerk in the world! definitely not the guy i would want to be with, i wouldn't even slightly believe him if he ever told me he loved me. how could a guy this nasty love anyone but himself!?
2007-03-28 11:10:27
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answered by Anonymous
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...I would feel like leaving him hun...and I'm a guy for crying out loud sister. He's not a very empathetic kinda guy sweetie. He's trying to be a controlling pig and turn you into something you're not. Try that crap on him sometime..and he'd be firing off missiles hun. I say it's sorta kinda time to drop the "A" bomb on him darling. You can walk away from this guy..or you can run babe. I'm thinking running might be the better choice though...cause when you drop the bomb on him babe...he's gonna be a little bit angry. He should be angry too...at himself anyways. His loss is your gain sweetie. get rid of disappointing people that truly annoy your own senses for you babe. He's one of those annoyances. Are we clear on this stuff babe?
2007-03-28 17:40:21
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answered by scott s 6
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sounds like u have put up with WAY more than u should have over that time and i think it is time that u took a good hard look at your relationship with him. he is a controling type of person and u would b better off thinking about meeting and dating a guy that treats u with respect.
2007-03-28 17:35:40
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answered by spiderking88 4
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that sucks he want sex for sure,don't let him under estimate you,they think they are perfect,noway we are all equal ,show him your smartness and when he criticizes you again,cut him off by telling him you sound like a girl winning,he will get the point
2007-03-28 17:36:01
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answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5
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let me finish that up.
he has a nasty personality and....
he will be dumped in less than 48 hours.
2007-03-28 17:31:37
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answered by Konrad 6
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Tell him to take a hike! You do not deserve to be treated that way
2007-03-28 17:33:55
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answered by pandog 2
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Ummmmm, he needs to be dumped.... Have some self respect... Its vital!
2007-03-28 17:31:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Leave this guy. Only a bleak future would be in store for you with this loser. LEAVE HIM!
2007-03-28 17:35:17
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answered by Anonymous
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you need to give him the boot
you sound to good for him
2007-03-28 17:33:22
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answered by Anonymous
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it would have been over a long time ago.
2007-03-28 17:31:48
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answered by A P 3
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