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Tell them they deserve better.

2007-03-28 10:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by ruttster 3 · 0 0

Honesty is always the best policy Hun. Be kind but know what you want and dont want and dont settle for secound best. In person is the best way really that way if the other person needs to talk things through to get the closure they need then they can. I suggest meeting in a public place that way things cant get too messy but you are still doing the right thing. Hope all goes well.

2007-03-28 11:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by NotEthel 1 · 0 0

good grief.... don't tell them truth and don't be kind... you'll give them hope.

1. Talk about getting married.
2. Tell him you want 5 children.
3. Talk about both of those ALL THE TIME.
4. Tell him you're late... WE'RE GOING TO HAVE A BABY!!!!
5. Introduce him to your family, in alot of cases, if you do this first, the first 4 suggestions won't be necessary.
6. Accuse him of EVERYTHING.
7. Never wear makeup.
8. Don't dress up.
9. Be nice to him.
10. Tell him you have to move, can he help?


Make him dump you, OK?

2007-03-28 10:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by lady 5 · 0 0

Tell them nicely and NOT by text or phonecall (This may seem conveinent but it makes ya look like a complete *****)
Tell him to his face but make out its all your fault (even if its not true it will keep his ego from getting bruised)
Don't mock him, laugh at him crying, or tell him cuz he was rubbish in bed. In fact don't say anything to knock his self confidence because that can really cut a person up.
On the other hand, if your finishing him cuz he cheated or he called you names, or hit you etc.. then sleep with his best mate or his brother

2007-03-28 10:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 0 0

Do it in person. Make sure you don't give him any false hope -that's $hitty - But really, make sure he knows it's final. Even if you think you may want to get back with him, keep it to yourself. Tell him you're sorry for hurting him, but staying with him would hurt him more, in the long run. Good luck, breaking up sucks - no matter the reason.

2007-03-28 10:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Tiilynn♥ 4 · 0 0

if the person you breaking up with you think might hurt you do it over the phone
but if not talk them in person be honest don't be nasty about it
tell that person why it just not working out but remember it takes 2 in a realtionship so if you admit some of your faults the break up might not be so nasty

2007-03-28 10:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by john h 1 · 0 0

Just go to him and give to him straight. Just be sensitive to his emotions if he's that kind of guy, or be callous if he isn't. We have a tendency to lose it in one way or another.
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The reason I say to give it to him straight, is so that he knows exactly what the problem was. You help him, and YOU'RE FREE!! Just kidding around.

So Best of Luck and don't take too long to deliver (espec. if you do not hurt him).

2007-03-28 10:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0 0

Be straight with them, theres nothing worse than stringing someone along. Tell him you need to talk and explain that you dont think that its working out and that you didnt wanna string him along; Although he may be hurt, he should respect the fact you explained. And yes i am well aware of the cliche

2007-03-28 10:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Black Magic; 3 · 1 0

MY x just broke up wit me 2 weeks ago if yall go to school together DONT DO IT THROUGH A NOTE just be straight up wit him....if yall have been going out fo a little while just say THIS ISNT WORKING OUT your a great guy but................if you have only been going out for not a very long time just say YOU CAN DO BETTER THEN ME of GET A FRIEND JUST TO SAY TO HIM SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU......please try to be a little nice to him.....o and say you still want to be friends.....GOOD LUCK!

2007-03-28 10:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Joe T. Pride 1 · 0 0

Honestly alot of my friends are guys and they have always told me that instead of a long conversation they just want to hear "its over" no long convo just see ya! It sounds harsh, some guys mite not be like that though!

2007-03-28 10:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by Cheyennes Mommy 1 · 0 0

Just say this, Look we have been through a lot together, I don't think its working out, It time we make a change and start seeing other people. Sorry but were through.

2007-03-28 10:28:56 · answer #11 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0 0

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