How can I be more confident around her?

Question

I've gone out with this girl twice and I still get nervous around her. I am naturally a shy guy, so How can I overcome that and become more confident?

Answer 1

Don't worry! That's natural. Pretty much everyone is nervous when first dating someone. I'm a naturally shy person, but I've found that I become more confident if I envision the kind of person I want to be. It may sound dumb, but I picture an actress that's super confident & sexy like scarlett johannsen, etc. & I try to just embody that. :) I guess that sounds kind of weird when I say it, but if you can think of someone whose confidence you admire, just picture yourself being like them. It's like it gives you this little extra confidence boost & it's fun!

Also, smile a lot. Smiling actually fools your brain into thinking you're more comfortable & less nervous than you really are. Try to put the focus on her in conversation by asking about her & her life, & you'll slowly relax & become comfy. It'll be ok!

Answer 2

Be kind an respectful and I think it will all work out as it takes time to get acquainted with someone. You will gain confidence.

Answer 3

I think thats because you like her or you have a crush on her,Why dont you try to talk to her .Cmon she want eat you up .So why are you scared of her:.

Answer 4

just be yourself cause im sure normaly your not that shy.. its your gurlfriend common now cause i can asure yuo that if you keep it like that

shes gonna wanna leave you and you dont want that now do you??

well


GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 5

be funny and dance wit her talk and have fun dont be shy be outgoing and fun to be with

Answer 6

First avoid your fear....!and try to be confient....!when u go with her you don't care abt others....!even if there is someone to make problem to u....!