Ok, so there's this guy I met online, a friend introduced us. And we're just friends and we just chat and it's totally innocent, but now he keeps trying to kiss me and stuff, (online,) and whenever he does, I just log off. I feel bad doing this to him and not telling him, cuz I used to like him, but I think getting as involved as he wants to be, over the internet, is not a good idea.
How do I tell him to stop trying things with me?
I'm sortof scared to say anything, because he threatened me once, that he would use some sort of weird comp program, and he could locate me with satelite, and see everything I see on my comp...it freaks me out! I don't have anything to hide, but it's freaky!!!!
I don't know what to do,...please help.
Thanks.
2007-03-28 10:17:19 · 19 answers · asked by ~ <3 ~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop tripping we both know he's not going to do anything.
Create a new e-mail address and slowly stop using yours.
or
since you have friends in common just tell him slow down because you feel uncomfortable , or stop it period.
what are you afraid of he can't see you and you can't see him. For real you don't know if he is a she or a senior citizen.
Learn to stand up for yourself or you will be falling for anything
2007-03-28 10:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by styles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a on line hit man to threaten this guy and get him off your back. Find a clever computer wizard who can both protect your computer and destroy the guy's hard drive. Give the Geek Squad a call and become friends with the guy they send out to help you.
2007-03-28 10:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know who he really is or if he is next door or in Thailand. Stop talking with him !!!
Friends are people you know and trust ... this fella is some guy that like to flirt with you online. Try going to the movies instead.
2007-03-28 10:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by man of noble character 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, dude, you got some problems! Seriously, if the guy is talking to you like that, just ignore him! If he keeps bothering you, tell someone! A friend, a family member, the po-po!
2007-03-28 10:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this guy is def. wierd you should try a couple of things befroe getting the police involved. first try blocking him second if that doesnt work change you online items ex: e-mail adress. i also wouldnt take his little threats forgranted, things lik that do exsist call the POLICE with proof!
2007-03-28 10:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by katrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone ever threatens you, you should know he or she doesn't deserve you. I don't think he can watch what you do on your computer, unless you accept files from him, so don't do it. Don't waste your time with someone like that, never. Just don't talk to him anymore.
2007-03-28 10:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him at all. And then tell your parents about this creep. Then stay off the net.
2007-03-28 10:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DISCONTINUE this 'relationship NOW !! If he has threatened you how do you kow he won't FOLLOW THRU ? Best talk to your parents or some one adult you can confide in and get a judge to issue a RESTRAINING ORDER !! This dude sounds like a "LOOSE CANNON" !! WATCH YOUR BACK !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 10:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by AZRAEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a new screen name! Tell him your going out of town, then never logg on the old screen name again! avoid avoid avoid!
2007-03-28 10:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by *siigh* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him at all costs. This isn't normal behavior and it will only end up in pain and further fear. Disconnect from him.
2007-03-28 10:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by psygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋