well we kinda rushed into a relationship (she asked me out the first day that we met) and I am trying to compensate for that by taking the relationship slowly. At first she didn't know that I wanted to take it slowly, so she was wondering why I didn't kiss her after knowing her for two days. I know from experience that my relationships don't last very long if I rush into kissing. I told her that we could probaly wait about a week. But then on sunday I had the urge to kiss her really bad but didnt do it because i am trying to take it slowly. so i couldnt hold it anymore and i told her that i would kiss her the next day(monday), but then she said that she agrees with me that we shouldnt rush into kissing and that we should wait a week or so. Has she lost interest in kissing me? or does she really agree with me?
2007-03-28 10:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Ghost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she's trying to make you feel the same urge and rejection she felt..(yes, its basically a rejection). If she really likes you then if you really get physical and flirt....she'll end up giving way and kissing you.
2007-03-28 10:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by darth818 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can Never second guess a girl or a woman!
2 answers could go either way.1st,she may have figured out you were serious about waitnig and does not want to be too forward so shes going along with your request or 2nd,she may be trying to teach you a lesson that she IS in the drivers seat.ALL women are period.Women are more agressive these days and they know what we want and they have it.Therefore they ARE in the drivers seat.Follow her lead next time and see what happens.
2007-03-28 10:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by VROD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule of thumb for dating: Say it to the girl and SHE WILL TELL HER FRIENDS!!!
Order of operations in girls (aka DATES):::
- D ude tells girl something significant
- A ll friends find out
- T ells BEST friend every detail
-E xplains and anylizes it to herself a ton
-S ays somthing to her boyfriend about it later
Ask any girl they will totally agree (although it varys slightly girl to girl) that this is just how it goes. Ecspeccially early in the relationship. We're a lot less independant and opinionated than you...they've depended of their girlfriends for everything and the aren't stopping now! So, this is her comeback to what you said. What next? Say another something sweet, like, "I'm glad you agree with me and we have an understanding but you're just so beautiful I want to share a kiss with you." I'm a gal talking so you can make it less fruity if you want :p
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-28 10:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she agrees with you but you will only know when a week passes and she is still around-if not dont be sad about it becasue i think you are very wise to know it is never a good idea to rush into any relationship for any reason. good luck
2007-03-28 10:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think she's punishing you because you didn't kiss her when she wanted you to so now she's going to make you wait till she feels like you suffered enough and learned your lesson and never make her wait for what she wants again
2007-03-28 10:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by riopel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was upset because you wanted to wait a little while, and now she's trying to get back at you. but i wouldnt worry about it, if the relationship lasts a little while it will be worth it
2007-03-28 10:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋