My cousin is a huge volleyball player(16 yrs). I have to be just like her. Tall, always playing vball. the thing is i dont want to be a vball player. i mean its an ok sport but still. o she is also a *****.
2007-03-28 10:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Brunettebabe 2 in Sports ➔ Volleyball
My family makes me do it and when i dont want to my sisters are like, "your bad!" any advice for saying NO!?
2007-03-28 10:25:44 · update #1
Advice for saying no:
Tell your parents you aren't having fun competing and you want to focus on something else. Explain that doing this makes you miserable and you think you energy would be better spent exploring something else that is more suited for you. Tell them you find it a waste of time, time that could be spent somewhere else that would make you happy. Tell them you are your own person and feel you are trying to be defined by others and volleyball.
make sure you have that something else in mind before doing this... like soccer or maybe music. Whatever you feel passionate about and would like to pursue. Make sure they understand that the time you devoted to volley ball will be redirect to this activity.
This will show strength of character for going after what you believe.
2007-03-28 11:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something that you like to do even more than Volleyball. Tell your parents that you don't mind playing volleyball but you would rather do something else instead. Hopefully your parents undersand. Dont worry about your sisters. if they arent out there playing volleyball then they shouldnt be sayn any thing!
2007-03-28 20:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by volleychik11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself NO ONE should ever make you do something you don't want to do!!! sports are suppose to be fun and if you don't like playing it then what is the point if you arent' havin FUN!?!?!?! Juss sit them down and talk to them about your interests....IGNORE YOUR SISTERS!!!
2007-03-28 21:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Squeeks!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So who is making you play volleyball?
2007-03-28 17:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them what you want to do with your life and if they don't listen then give it a try you might like it. if you don't like it them find somethin you are good at.
2007-03-28 20:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mom or dad is making you do this tell them its something you don't want to do. im sure they will understand :)
P.S stay away from the cousion
2007-03-28 17:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by millercutie23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em you just don't like it and find your own thing
2007-03-28 17:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something you like and have fun with it
2007-03-28 18:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be like her if you dont have to.
I mean nobody likes a follower, right??!!
2007-03-29 00:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by cherrygirl101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋