Affection disorder?

Question

I need the afection and protection to all persons around me.I need proofs of love all the time otherwise I feel deppresed and alone.

I had a father but he was so cruel with me

Answer 1

You are Loved by people everywhere.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about your past. If you have an abused backround, it is normal that you seek affection and protection in others. You need help. Otherwise, you will always need this affection and will feel depressed when you don't have it. This might even explain other areas in your life that you have asked Yahoo Answers.

Answer 3

aw im sorry about your dad. that's the reason why though, because he was cruel to you. you'll probably outgrow it. when i was younger id switch households so much and never had a permanent family that i formed a huge fear of lonliness and being abandoned and would become rageful when people would leave me by myself. i outgrew it in a couple years. you probably will too. it's very hard to deal with and you just need to find someone who will help you through it and understand you rather than be negative about it.

Answer 4

you are not aloan i have been fighting depresion for over 10 years now an on meds for over 10 yrs i feel aloan an hopless every day i tell my self every night tomorow will be better dont ask me if it is because i will lie an say yes lol all we can do is do our best an try to keep our chin up what i do every day to feel good is try to help an rescue someone that needs help more then me remember you are not aloan i hope you will do well from a friend michael

Answer 5

These two entities: affection and disorder, are oxymorons, see? These two put together like this are conflicts in terms.

That is to say, affection of itself is not a disorder by any stretch of thought or imagination.

It is like electricity, it is neither good or bad but rather, influenced by the intention applied to it that would ascribe to it either of these two qualities.

Affection is like this: it can be made a matter of degrees according to the intentions that touch it. But affection returns to its steady-state. If it does not or never can, then 'that' is not affection...

You have somewhat external influences that attached its qualities to you that are wholly foreign to you; which is outside the realm of affection, your realm... See?

By this you could also say that a disorder within another was altered by the affection that you have within you.

You can no more expect a person to give you something he or she doesn't have to give than you can demand a beggar to give to you a million dollars... You see?

For you will have asked him to give of something he does not have to give.

Your matter is to know and identify with your affection, not with the disorder of another.

For that is foreign, something over which you have no control, which is possibly why you have a "disorder."

It does not belong to you, or with you. It is not yours...

I mean, here you are made to fly, say, but trying to force yourself to hop-along and crawl.

'Not your nature... See? Let that go... Go within ask that you be shown others like yourself so that you can ground again and recharge to your nature and steady-state...

Here's a little story: The centipede was happy, while the frog said in fun, 'Which leg, please, comes after which?' This raised the her doubts to such a fever pitch, she fell confounded in a ditch, not knowing how to run...

Answer 6

so are you saying that you need to be loved by everyone around you? sry i didnt quit understand your wording. that is perfectly normal if you grew up with an abusive father. your friends, they love you, your mother, she loves you, god will always love you no matter what. everyone (including you) is always loved by someone somewhere. although you need to feel loved by everyone surronding you, when you walk down the street, the person you hav never seen in your life standing next to you will not love you, but you dont love them. you will not be loved by the world. as long as you love and respect yourself people will love and respect you. when you are alone and dont feel loved, pray and talk to god, he will give you all the love and hope you need. good luck and just know that there is always gonna be someone there to love u!

Answer 7

Feel the same way..I learth that I forget other ppl need something from me too and also that connections are the key to forgetting ur own desires and keeping in ur mind the desires of ppl you care about.

Answer 8

I agree with Jamidami. Clearly your past is causing you problems, and continuing the way you are is not helpful. Try to seek help from a counsellor. If you do nothing about it, things will not improve.

Answer 9

i am the same way.


all of my family is cruel. so when i dont have a lot of attention i just feel hated. i'm sorry. i hope WE both can over come this.

Answer 10

i feel the same way a lot. I just surround myself with as many friends who i know love me as possible!

I <3 you!