is it wrong to still have feelings for your ex -boyfriend?

Question

see my ex is flirting with me and i'm flirting back . but i we also kiss to. and all of my feelings came again. what should i do?

Answer 1

It depends on how you left your ex. Also are you with anyone else right now? What I am saying is that if you are on your own it might be that you are just lonely and need a boost and the ex has given it and you responded? Either way I personally think you should slowly explore further with the ex. The going back thing is okay as long as the reasons you broke up can be resolved. The break may make you stronger? It all depends on why you broke up and whether you two can be honest and overcome it. It is possible.. You only live once, never leave something you may later regret. See what happens! Good luck.

Answer 2

No flirting or kissing none of that .The more you do the harder it is to let go completely and when he moves on and you see him with someone else you will be hurt again. My suggestion is to be friends but leave all the dating things to the dating people. Now if you want him back girl go for it see what you can do to get him back.

Answer 3

It's not "wrong", exactly. This thing happens all the time. But it's probably best to stop it from going any further. There's the select few couples that get back together and it works, but more often than not...you two broke up for a reason and it's easy to forget it when you go back to this innocent flirting phase. Remember why you guys split up and be honest with yourself about it.

Answer 4

...if he's your ex honey?...why are you two ex's still kissing and hugging and carrying on in this not so much ex type behavior hun? Flirting with an ex is ok I suppose...but not really ordinary here truly. Usually ex's are ex's for a reason darling. What's your reasons for this flirtation here otherwise? You're both feeling this stuff together babe. Maybe a conversation with him would possibly answer your feelings...oops!...I mean questions. Are you following me here babe? What would you like us to decide for you ornately? Sounds and looks and feels like the re-stirring of the romance by my eyes standards anyways. Would I be wrong babe?

Answer 5

It's a common situation, those people that we spend time with and open up to have a place in our minds. What you need to decide is if there is a future continue what your doing and ask him to go back out with you.

However remember the reasoning why you broke up in the first place, if its still evident then perhaps you two should stop flirting with each other or stop seeing each other all together.

Answer 6

Your attraction is already still there. It is a lot easier to get that physical feeling up with someone you've been with for a while, because you know their signals inside and out and you're used to responding to them.
However, there has to be a reason why you guys broke up. Unless those issues get resolved, any attempt at getting back together is doomed. What was the reason? Has either one of you changed enough so that that reason wouldn't come up? What efforts did they make to change?

Answer 7

Well take it from me when i broke up wit my ex i broke his heart but got over it but any way if u still have feelings for him then u should give him another try but if he did somethingg bad like cheat on u call u somethin or hit u then leave that piece of meat alone and kick him to the curve

Answer 8

Maybe not flirt with him if you don't like the feeling that you get. Oh and kissing is a bad idea too.

Answer 9

What's up with the games? This is where folks mess themselves up fooling around and even having sex with exes.......they are exes for a reason. It's not wise to fool around with someone you previously dated because it's giving mixed messages and you two will not be able to function in a stable relationship going at it like this.

Answer 10

it's only wrong if you are in a relationship now