How not to be such a obsessive boyfriend??

Question

I've been withthis girl for awhile and lately have had alot of stress in my life. Not to do with her, but I find myself obsessing over when shes gonna call and whatever. Insecurity from the stress is a major part. I keep thinking to myself that shes gonna find someone better.

Any tips on how not obsess over her. Get my mind off her all the time??

Answer 1

u need to talk to her and ask her if she truly luvs u. i think that if u just hear say that she does then that will make u feel better

Answer 2

Keep busy. You are right that it is an insecurity issue -- everyone feels that way, some just cope with it differently. So, keep busy and try to divert some of your focus away from her. Go for a walk, read a book, get some exercise or do something active that requires a lot of attention (take some specialized classes and learn to do something... learn to play the ukulele! learn to weave or whatever). Your independence will be much more attractive to your girlfriend. Be yourself, that is who she wants to be with most. Good luck.

Answer 3

Take comfort in the fact that she with you and not anyone else. Be happy and confident with her and all your worries should be gone.

If there are problems still have a talk with her about your insecurities and see if she can help.

Answer 4

prove to her that you are better than the rest of them. treat her good, don't smother her, and definately do not give her guilt for wanting to go out with her friends without you, or spending alone time by herself.
if you constantly obsess about her finding someone else she will notice it and she WILL find somebody else that doesn't smother her.

Answer 5

im going 2 be straight with u. give her space to go out with her friends. dont call her like every 5minutes asking her were r u? let her feel like shes free and that will make ur relationship better and she would like that, and trust her and it will make u feel more relieved. good luck !!!

Answer 6

Get a hobby.