A 14 yr old yelled & cursed loudly at her 19 yr cousin and criticized her shy and quiet attitude last week when her 19 yr old cousin was visiting her home. The 19 yr old cried because of that. In the past, the 19 yr old was always helpful, nice, submissive, and honor roll student, and never rebel against anyone. The 14 yr old doesn’t like shy and quiet people. She is afraid that she will be exactly like the 19 yr if she continues to like and be with her. She doesn’t want to become a shy and quiet person. So the best way is to distant from her cousin. Her cousin feels hurt being criticized. Her cousin’s parents are upset about the 14 yr old. They said, “How can she hate and yell at someone so well behaved like her?” The 14 yr old said, “She is not my type. I don’t want to talk to her again.” The 14 yr old’s father say “My daughter will not yell and curse at anyone. It is the 19 yr old that is wrong. Period.”
2007-03-28 09:37:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that's sad
gw
2007-03-28 10:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by georgewallace78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the 14 year old needs to grow up. Hanging out with someone can not make you just like them unless you choose to be like them. Hurting peoples feeling just because you know you can is wrong. If you don't like her just go some where when the 19 year old is around and that solves it all. STAY AWAY FROM HER....
2007-03-28 09:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Purplepassion9126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy people. Thats it..but if my 14 yr old came in cussing any I'm not sure she'd be doing it anytime soon. NO scratch that...SHE WOULDNT DO IT AGAIN! As for the 19 yr old she should try to not be so shy....eventually people would prolly try taking advatage of her. And as for the family....Every parent wants to protect their own..its nature...i know alot of parents that cant see their kids need discipline or just to grow up....i have a 22 yr old nephew who has ran up his parents bills, credit cards, bank accounts simply bc he wants to blow his own money on entertainment instead of paying his bills and he got a dui...but of course to them this is....OKAY.....whatever
CRAZY PEOPLE
2007-03-28 09:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Christian is only my Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋