Yo should I date this girl?

Question

Yo. I like this girl, and I am pretty sure that she likes me a lot because we are always hugging eachother, and she tries to grab my hand and stuff.

I would like to date her, but dont know if I should. My last few relationships have ended badly, and I think the best way to hold onto her would be to be her friend.

All my friends tell me I should ask her out, but I just don't want to date someone, only to risk our friendship in the process.

What does a total stranger think?

Answer 1

Aw..that sounds SO sweet! You should totally ask her out. Put the past behind you, what happened has happened, and you can't change that. And you don't want to live with some kind of regret for NOT going out with her...

Take the chance before she moves on...she's probably waiting for you to make the move. And even tell her that no matter what happens you still want to be friends. Treat her well and respect her alot, just do what you didn't do in your bad relationships. Maybe this way your relationship will prosper possibly! You won't know until you try.

BTW~ I think that you having many bad relationships are also giving you an advantage. That way you can look back and see what you did wrong, or what you gf did wrong and be more careful in the future. Since you really like this girl, you should give her a chance. Good luck and hope this helps! ♥

Answer 2

YEAH YOU SHOULD DATE HER. I mean yes I understand why you wouldnt want to date her because you dont want wha thas happeend in the past to happen again but if you like her you should be with her. Trust me I speak from experiance. Maybe thsi girl will turn out to not hate you when you two break up. Follow your heart. Whatever your heart tells you to do jsut go for it. I wish you all the luck and happyness with this girl because I think you two would make a perfect couple. Good luck

Answer 3

You're afraid of getting hurt; that's understandable. It all really comes down to you: imagine yourself as her friend, and imagine yourself as her boyfriend. Which image is more pleasing? I'd say remain friends with her for awhile. If after a while you are still thinking of asking her out, then you probably should. Just remember to move slowly. If she's in a hurry and decides to blow you off, then she wasn't the right girl for you.

Answer 4

well seems like the situation is already good. the past is the past and should put your future upon it. you never know. since you 2 like each other already obviously i think you should go for it. you never know. you 2 might end up getting married in the future. the best relationships are those that already has a strong foundation as friends. i say go for it.

Answer 5

Life's short. Date the girl.

Answer 6

Yeah, go for it! She'll be flattered, especially if she's been trying to hold your hand. Try to do it in like a sweet, charming way. Be chivalrous! Girls love that.

Answer 7

I think you should figure out why your other relationships ended bad. Than work on that, if it is something that you an fix, than ask her out and avoid whatever it was that made your other ones not work.

Answer 8

If you want to date her then do it. Life is to short not to try and and if things don't go well you can be friends again. It will be differnet but it also can be done.

Answer 9

You don't Have to ask her out if you are friends just go out ask her as a friend. like go to dinner and a movie.

Answer 10

Why dont you be her friend first and hang out with her, if you like her ask her out. I know this might sound crappy but, follow your heart!