Ok, i know how pathetic this must sound but i like this guy who doesnt know me at all. He is in a grade higher then me, so he doesnt know me. I want to change that. I want him to meet me somehow but i have no idea how. I want him to notice who i am. i need to like run into him somewheree but idk how and what would i even say. and im not just going to go up to him and be like hey whats up or anything because he doesnt EVEN know me and then he would think i was a freak. What should i do? I barley see him too, only in the halls between classes sometimes. give me some ideas please?
2007-03-28 09:28:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about trying to think of a question you could ask him. If he plays on the basektball team or something-you could say:
"Hey, do you guys have a game tonight?"
Or...
You could pretend that you are taking a survey for something (a class, outside of school project), and just casually ask him some survey questions. Maybe it's a survey on cars or sports. Guys like those things. Practice on a few people first so that you get the hang of it.
The survey idea would be a good way to get to even talk to him for a few min-maybe get his name and then later say hi to him in the hallway more consistently. If he asks what the survey is for-just say it's for a friend or an outside of school thing.
Hope that helps!
Alex
2007-03-28 09:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by dragonalex27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, What do you know about this boy other than he is cute or popular or what ever had immediately caught your attention and attracted you to him? You need to find out what he likes. What things do you both have in common? When you find common ground with another person it is much easier to actually go up to them and start a conversation. Then if you see him alone at his locker, go up and introduce yourself and say something like ..."Hey, I heard you like....... So do I. Then start talking about it. Then ask if he would like to get together some time. Have self confidence. If you go up to him and he thinks you are a freak then he really isn't worth it anyways, but be proud of the fact that you had the self confidence to try. Just don't do the silly thing where girls send their friends to do the talking for them. And just be yourself!
Good luck!
2007-03-28 16:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by dmbraz1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days guys like girls to be the more agressive ones because they decided to get shy. So go up to him and introduce yourself but still take this slow because you don't want to freak him out. If you keep aproaching him more and more in a friendly manner, then either he will start to like you or he will never like you and you should just get over him because there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-03-28 16:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rawr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're in a tough spot. You just need to be brave and try to catch his eye when you see him in the halls. It's really hard to get to know someone, unless you have something in common - so just get your freinds to do a little recon for you and find out what he's into. Good Luck! ;-)
2007-03-28 16:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE COULD FEEL THE SAME WAY. DON'T FALL TO PIECES, JUST WALK UP TO HIM SOMETIME AND KEEP YOUR COOL, INTRODUCE YOURSELF, AND TELL HIM YOU'D LIKE TO GO OUT WITH HIM. WHAT'S THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN?? IF HE TURNS YOU DOWN MOVE ON, AND SAY NEXT....... WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO BE YOUR AGE AGAIN AND KNOW WHAT I KNOW NOW..... HIGH SCHOOL WOULD HAVE ROCKED.........
2007-03-28 16:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have the guts to go right up to him and say hi, then you shouldn't be posting here. Don't be a chicken your whole life.
2007-03-28 16:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time in the hall ensure he sees your eyes and look rate at him and smile
2007-03-28 16:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bob D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound creepy are you stalking him? How can you like him if you dont even know him?
2007-03-28 16:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sabrina R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him if you are in classes. If you talk to talk to him he will talk to you. But do not look for him just if you see him walk up to him with something to talk about.
2007-03-28 16:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to you he is like a film star. gf/bf must be more on equal terms than this. forget it.
2007-03-28 16:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋