I talked to this guy and he seemed like a sweetheart. The only thing is that after a great 2 days I can't seem to find him anylonger?! I know he comes online, but we keep missing each other. I sent him an email, but I didn't get a response. I don't want to email him again and seem obsessive. What should I do? I really liked him too!! :(
2007-03-28 09:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by Geetu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, whatever you do, DON'T be obsessive. I can't think of a worse way to turn someone off than i.m.(ing) them constantly and sending them a sh*tload of emails.
Possibly he has a life away from his computer and he's busy. Before you make certain that he's gone, give it a few days. He will probably respond to you sooner or later.
Meanwhile, get on with your life. There are plenty of real life guys out there. Start talking to them.
2007-03-28 09:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by mistressmalice23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew! Okey.....how can you tell that he is such a sweetheart if you havent met him yet,I understand you chat for two days but how sure are you that he is the person that he portray? Besides you already sent him an email ryt?
Ok lets look at the bright side maybe his busy and no tym to go online? or maybe his email was blocked? Or maybe he feels the same way and dont wanna fall?
2007-03-28 16:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by sugarspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. I know those 2 days probably felt magical and all but... 2 days? Are you serious? You might meet someone in real life and have a great 2 hours that may blow that 2 whole days away. Short of that there are billions of people online to chat with and get to know. Don't limit yourself to just 1 virtual sweetheart.
2007-03-28 16:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Will H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be, you need to stop writing him. Obviously he wants nothing to do with you or he would be writing you and answering your emails. You got played, probably by some lonely guy who sits at home night after night playing online games. I'm sure he fed you a bunch of line making it seem like he cared for you. Always look at a guys actions, not what they say.
2007-03-28 16:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way is u can call him at 360 degree in yahoo messenger and add in contact list. But it could be done in those 2 days itself. And even if u doing that there is a chance 2 him to select appear offline 4 u alone. 4 more details contact when u feel free
rajendraprasad_kumar@yahoo.co.in
2007-03-30 03:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by kumar r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not obsessive to email him back ONCE. You could just say that sometimes emails get lost (true in my case) or that you deleted his email (that will get him to either admit he never sent one or start him to think you want to hear from him but not saying it in so many words).
Other than that, just wait for him to be on-line when you are - without appearing to stalk.
2007-03-28 16:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you because you haven't learned anything from listening to the news. Meeting people on line is risky and that one doesn't even seem to be so interested anyway
2007-03-28 16:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the blinders off. You have been online DUMPED.
It happens everyday honey. This is exactly why I refuse to meet men online. What you see is not what you get. There is too much lies and deceipt online.
2007-03-28 16:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by donte' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed him so you mailed him,now its his turn.If he is really interested he will try to reach you otherwise he is avoiding you.To know the fact just wait and watch.Not necessary if you like someone he should like you too.Its up to individual.Don't think of it too much it will only give you pain.
2007-03-28 16:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Res J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋