He says he's looking for a "good woman" and wants to get married. But when the friendship progresses to him asking me to dinner and generally becoming more intimate - he's too busy? Am I just not a "good woman"? What is up with him, guys?
2007-03-28 09:22:00 · 4 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - we are not even close to marriage. Only mentioned it because it is in his mind as something he wants at some point with someone.
2007-03-28 09:28:42 · update #1
Guys just get frightened my commitment easily. Honestly, guys always say women are difficult to understand but they're the real confusing sex. I'm convinced they just never mature--they're always boys at heart. If he doesn't have the time for you, I suggest moving on. There are good guys out there that will fulfill all of your needs.
2007-03-28 09:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that if a woman doesn't get what she wants, it's his problem? He doesn't have a problem with commitment...you do. You expect him to live within your time frame and your ideas of what to expect. It's like he doesn't get a say in the matter.
He should dump you now, clearly you are self-centered and controlling. He needs to run from you as fast and far as possible and find a real "good woman".
2007-03-28 09:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot to be said for taking things slow. Last thing either of you want is to get married and then meet the guy or girl of your dreams.
2007-03-28 09:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt mean what he say. he is afraid.
2007-03-28 09:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋