i read a book that says cinderella women want to be pampered by her husband till death do them part. i don't know what to think.moonraven/cinderella
2007-03-28 09:19:51 · 15 answers · asked by MOONRAVEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Not at all. People marry for different reasons. If someone is willing to sacrifice certain things for a marriage then they can't complain when they feel they are lacking those things within the marriage. Sure people stick their nose in your business and judge you. But who really cares what they think. It's your life, your marriage and your happiness. Besides, who wouldn't want to be pampered for life. Good Luck & God Bless!
2007-03-28 09:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, sure, that might be nice if it really existed. There are no real prince charmings out there. No husband, no matter how great, will be able to live up to that type of expectation. The closest thing I can think of like that is the "hen-pecked husband," who just does whatever his wife orders him to do. I wouldn't want that. So, I don't say it's "wrong" to want the cinderella life, I'm just saying that the reason that fairy tale is so popular is because so many women and girls long for someone to sweep them off their feet and take care of them, but in reality even the most wonderful husband will at some point disappoint you, and that's when the reality of compromise, unconditional and mutual love and acceptance come into play. You just have to enjoy the moments of prince-like quality that shine now and then.
2007-03-28 16:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by snapoutofit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless your in that 10% rich rich quota... it's just not always possible... Yeah, I want to be treated like a queen and live like Cinderella but I still gotta get up go to work and clean the toilet :)
I guess it's really what type of pampering you want and need- emotional or material?
2007-03-28 16:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends what you mean by cinderella life. if that means arich man, to each is own depending on the arrangement that might work out well for some women. if you mean true honest to goodness love. where they pamper you with undying love and affection for all your life long days, sign me up. you need to specify a little more $$$$$ or love?
2007-03-28 16:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by ericams85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want my husband to pamper me because I pamper him also. Marriage is give and take and any woman thinking she is going to be pampered 24/7 needs to be woke up to reality. Yes some guys are more capable to pamper more then others but love is also a major part of marriage too. Marriage is suppose to be sacred and women with those kind of expectations are ruining what marriage is suppose to be. And my suggest to them would be to read the Bible. It tells clearly what marriage is and what it's suppose to be.
2007-03-28 16:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that all women want to be pampered by there hudband more then just a little it makes you feel good... but then again they would be taking it too far if they wanted to be pamered 24/7....
2007-03-28 16:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nay nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to want to be pampered. It's NOT ok to never give some pampering in return.
2007-03-28 16:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for a women to think she can live a fantasy. Life isn't like that, and you won't be happy when you come to realize that.
2007-03-28 16:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who thinks they're going to live a fairytale life is foolish. No one's life is perfect. Expecting a fairytale life isn't realistic.
2007-03-28 19:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pampering is for pets.
2007-03-28 16:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋