i am ugly and have no boyfriend...how do i get him?

Question

i am 5,6 dirty blonde and and athletic. i havenot had a boyfriend that didn't last more then a month. HELP how do i get someone to stay and not murder my heart

Answer 1

I'ma tell you right now. It's NOT that you think your ugly, nor are you. If you were ugly, you wouldn't get a boyfriend in the first place.
"Looks are an audition, personality is the career."
It's your personallity that's driving them away.
It takes a lifetime to chage a face...
It takes a year to change a body...
but it only takes a second to change your mind...

Answer 2

Hun just because you may think you're ugly, doesn't mean you are. I think I'm ugly and fat but I get told different. If it makes you feel any better I'm almost 19 and I've only ever had 1 boyfriend. Can I not get dates because I'm ugly as well?

You've gotta be patient with it, don't go searching for a boyfriend, let him find you. If you see a guy who may be interested, don't give in right away find ways to draw him in and build the allure. basically, make him work for hat he wants. Then when you agree to go out with him, don't give everything up right away.

trial and error are the best ways to learn about relationships. Give it time. Keep a strong head on your shoulders and chin up high. You're gorgeous girl, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Keep saying that to yourself and your confidence alone will have guys running to greet you at your door step

Answer 3

I don't think your looks have anything to do with you not keeping boyfriends longer than a month. I have no idea how old you are, but some boys (i stress the word boys) aren't looking for something serious. You can't make anyone stay with you, but just enjoy things as they are and don't get so emotionally invested within a month. If you're too clingy, that can scare people away, too. Don't let yourself get beaten down by the whole "dating game" and you'll find somebody worth a long relationship.

Answer 4

I notice that when one lacks self confidence it scares people away. It took me a long time to figure that one out.

Once I got a little confidence, things got easier. Otherwise we end up sounding clingy and needy. Not very attractive.

I'm sure you are beautiful and if you are athletic most likely you have a body that any guy would want to be seen with. So keep your head up and smile you are beautiful.

Answer 5

I feel your pain. I have not had a girlfriend since 7th grade and I have given up dating 2 years ago. I am 19 years old and turning 20 this summer. Being ugly sucks, however I beleive that your not as bad looking as you think. However you can see my picture in case you need to puke.
http://360.yahoo.com/profile-aSPCZzojfqJr2ScRJbijIn5m2QQ-

Answer 6

First of all, you need to have confidence. If you say you're ugly then you will feel ugly. I'm sure you're a beautiful person. Just be confident with yourself, and guys will see that and want to be with you.

Answer 7

no man want a dirty girlfriend, just take bath 2 or 3 times a day, you might attract some guys.

Answer 8

well stop saying you are ugly for one and if you aren't the best looker that's OK start working on your social skill and your personality it will help until you start to grow into your body things will change i promise

and I'm sorry to say but you will have many broken hearts and that's the only for sure thing

Answer 9

First off change your views of yourself, be more confident of yourself. Your ugly for the reason that you view yourself to be, change your opinion on yourself and become happy with what you've been dealt.

With confidence there is little to nothing that will stand in your way.

Answer 10

look i not a rude person like some of dese people on here but if u are "ugly" jus wait becuz God made ot where its a person 4 everyone and he want break ure heart. so jus be patient becuz its worth da wait!!! i hope dis is da best answer f it is choose it as da best answer