I have been having problem with my boyfriend for the past 2 weeks. problems like, gilr droping by his house, is phone ring and him dont answer and girls texting him phone. so today he wanted to have sex with me but because i dont trust him anymore i find it hard to love the sex. CAN ANYONE TELL WHY I FEEL THIS WAY OR ANY ADVICE?
2007-03-28 09:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by pretty mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand where your comming from, because if in order for you to want and enjoy having sex, you need to feel comfortable. and when you may suspect your boyfriend cheeting on you, your not going to feel comfortable. my suggestion would be to sit down with him and try to talk.... see if he will confess anything, or see if you have nothing to worry about. but if he still acts like hes hiding things, i would start checking his cell every once in a while and if you figure out hes cheating on you, get rid of him...you deserve better!!!
2007-03-28 09:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by luluu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would feel the way your feeling towards my guy if those things were going on , I say you guys should talk about the problems you guys r having and the way your feeling, and hopefully ,you guys can reslove the problems, I say though if he has a gf , he shouldnt be receving no text's nor getting vist's from any girls, so TALK TO HIMM!!! and if you guys get everything straighten out Im sure you'll be loving the sexx!~~ again goodluck
2007-03-28 16:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lost the trust and you're almost losing the love, therefore, you're losing the sex too!
You're one of those rare gems who must have it all - trust, love, sex - in a relationship. Good for you! Now put on your thinking cap and re-evaluate your situation with this guy. You know you deserve better!
My very best to you. Good luck.
2007-03-28 16:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling insecure about the women who keep calling, texting, or coming by his house. In my opinion, you should sit down with him, and express how you feel.
2007-03-28 16:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Advice Giver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel insecure about your relationship, sit down with him and get all your questions answered, then you can either move on or make things work better.
Best of luck.
2007-03-28 16:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lack of interest in sex with him is normal. Don't have sex until you feel better about him.
2007-03-28 16:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u like him...???
If you dont find a another guy other than him...
2007-03-28 16:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him you don't want to be with him anymore.
2007-03-28 16:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by The One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about telling him that you are pregnant.
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2007-03-28 16:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋