Okay, so here's the thing:
I just met this guy through a friend, and we talked. At first I was just playing around with him (not sexual, just talking!). I didn't really have an attraction towards him, but now that we are talking more, I can't stop thinking about him....Do I tell him? Or do I talk to him more and hope this infatuation dies down?
2007-03-28 09:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by pandabear322 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't lead him on if your feelings aren't true. that isn't honorable . and don't tell him anything , till you know something is honest..
you aren't sure of , is plain to see in your comments.. talking to him isn't a commitment to get closer it is only conversation.. one learns of others that way , and yourself.. You like the contact somehow or wouldn't continue.. write on paper the things you like about the contacts with him.. what is it that attracts you..?
what do you expect out of relationships? ..
and , what you have to offer relationships.. and look at it carefully.
writing things down gives a clearer picture.. good luck!
2007-03-28 09:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. find out what hes about if he is what u need in ur long life or is just fun for right now. but dont wear ur heart on ur sleeve it will only get u hurt and u sound like a good girl that doesnt deserve to get hurt. stay strong ur in control always remember that and u wont get hurt as easily. good luck i wish u the best whatever turns out
2007-03-28 09:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking way to hard about nothing. Ask yourself why it is all of a sudden you find yourself wanting to be "more" than just friends? Then proceed to the next indicated thing.
2007-03-28 09:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what happened to me when I first met my current-boyfriend, I would see him in the halls at school and would talk to him, and flirt with him like crazy. Once i walked away, I would be like, WHYD I JUST DO THAT?! and i would find myself thinking about him... i ended up being madly in love with him! =] <33
2007-03-28 09:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by AB &♥; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel a connection than go for it. If you think it's just a fling because of first attractions then hold off and wait to see what happens.
2007-03-28 09:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by raiyn4502 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him & he doesn't feel the same way then it would fell very strange to be around him
so just keep talking to him & maybe he'll start to fell the same way but don't give up your fellings
or you could have a friend ask him who he likes
2007-03-28 09:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by pink_mcr_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking and hope it dies down...people rush into sex way too fast and there is so much more to a relationship than sex, actually, the friendship makes the sex better.
2007-03-28 09:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see what happens with him. Maybe he will make the move. If not then its his loss
You could always throw yourself at him, that usually works :)
2007-03-28 09:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by melaniejean862209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. Alot of great people have infectious personalities.
2007-03-28 09:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your true feelings with him, rather just chit chatting.
2007-03-28 09:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋