She's really shy. I gave her a strip tease with music and the whole deal. I got really into it and she thought it was so hot. But I asked her to do it and she wanted all the lights off and was really not into it at all because she was shy. What can I do to open her up?
2007-03-28 09:07:57 · 17 answers · asked by bitchlips411 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marry her :)
2007-03-28 09:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Marmar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to make her feel like she's the hottest person you've ever seen... at all times. A girl will open up if she doesnt feel threatened by other girls you've been with in the past. It seems like she likes you if she was into the striptease thing, but she's probably intimidated by your experience, since she's obviously never done or been with anyone that's done something like that. Everything she does you have to be totally amazed with and let it show.
2007-03-28 09:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by slickpam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rent the movies 9 & 1/2 weeks for Kim Basinger or Striptease , Demi Moore
2007-03-28 09:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try to just admire her body and tell her that she is great start off slow and tell her that she looks great with close on and then while you are undressing tell her how great each body part looks be soft and dont make her feel like a stripper hun thats so wrong
of and maybe she isnt ready to have sex i always have to say this cus its what i believe why dont you wait till you are married to have sex then she will feel secure with you and not worry as much and it helps the relationship to i promise i had to learn this the hard way
2007-03-28 09:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take awhile for your girlfriend to feel comfortable with you sexually. Give her as much time as she needs. Let her know that you are willing to wait as long as it takes for her to be comfortable with certain things. Show that you care for her and establish a strong connection with her; trust is very important to (most) girls when it comes to sex. Above all, let her know that you are enjoying your sex life now; don't act impatient just because she won't do certain things. It will all come in time.
2007-03-28 09:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. That's the best thing. Take it from a girl: We don't want to be rushed into doing something we are not wholly comfortable doing.
2007-03-28 09:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mailman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.hiya dude who're you kidding.i do no longer actually ought to have intercourse. So what's with the wandering palms ordinary.She's precise.As as quickly as you compromise for foreplay.then you definately will need t bypass each and each of ways
2016-10-01 21:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she may be shy about different parts of body or is not sure about what to do exactly to turn you on. Don't push her into doing anything...just tell her shes beautiful and you love her body.
2007-03-28 09:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time. Whatever you do, don't push her, or it will only take it that much longer. She will open up to you on her own time, when she feels ready.
2007-03-28 09:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by kasey1720 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has to be comfortable wtih herself first... let her get comfortable and maybe one day she would volunteer. if you havent been together for too long, then just give it time...
if she knows that you liek that, then i think she will make some efforts eventually!!
2007-03-28 09:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing your thing for her and she will eventually get into it and do it for you. Just encourage her and tell her how sexy she is to you and how much you like to watch her dance naked. Be naked around her a lot and she will eventually get use to being naked around you.
2007-03-28 09:12:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋