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I have ben in a relationship with this guy for about 3 years nd i live in this sopposrt accomodation which has gyals and boi's aged between 16-25 my boyfreind doz not live here with me. n e way recently this lad moved in I started to take a liking to him my boyfreind sratrted to relise that things were not the same between us to cut a long story short I sleep with this lad basially I just used him to get from him what my boyfreind wasnt giving me problem is now now this lad nd me have fallen out nd decided to be mates he has found someone else but now I really like him but I think he dnt like me like that any more twhat the duk I have been doing I dont no HELP ME plz

2007-03-28 09:02:52 · 13 answers · asked by Lovesherman 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

It took me a while to understand what you have written but i think ive got it!

There is nothing you can do, you betrayed your boyfriends trust, this other guy has zero respect for you and he doesnt want to know. You didnt use him he used you. move on

2007-03-28 09:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah X 3 · 1 0

You sound very young - and certainly too young to be sleeping around " to get what your boyfriend isn`t giving you ". ( what exactly is that....? sex....? attention....? compliments.....? ) I hope you were using protection against pregnancy and infection ? Look - learn from this, move on, and never do it again. If you don`t have respect for yourself, no-one else will. You`ve cheated on your boyfriend and you`ve been used by this other lad. One has no respect for you cos he`s used you and the other has no respect for you cos you have none for yourself. Getting your boyfriend back will only make things worse - you`ll argue over what you did all the time. Now just draw a line under it and make a fresh start - a new you - respectable and trustworthy. And remember - you don`t need sex that bad - there are other more important things for you to be thinking about at your age - like making a future for yourself. Now go and do it and forget about these 2.

2007-03-28 09:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0 1

I'm surprised that you are allowed to have a relationship with someone in the supported accommodation - my sister is in a similar situation and it's against the rules (although she did something very similar and it ended up with the boy having to leave).
The only thing I would say, which is what I said to her, is you are there to get help and support in putting your life in order and getting involved in the opposite sex is about the worst thing you can be doing. concentrate on yourself and leave the boys alone for a while.

2007-03-28 09:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rachael H 5 · 0 1

You sound a bit young and with out meaning to be rude a little messed up. My suggestion would be that you focus on sorting your life out and finding you, then look for a relationship, otherwise I fear you will just go from one heart break to another.
Anyway good luck, and I hope things work out for you in the longer term

2007-03-28 09:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0 1

i think ur an idiot, i feel sorry for ur poor fella, u could really **** him up doing that kind of ****, u could shatter his confidence. hes better off without you, dont ever do that to a man again, i think most girls dont no how badly it affects some men

2007-04-01 07:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by chestyflems 2 · 0 0

That's a really unique spelling of 'started' - sratrted. I love it, it's like it splattered across the screen, just like the rest of your hysterical question.

2007-03-28 09:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

how old are you?

i lived in support accomodation for a few months and it was nothing like that.

2007-03-28 09:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What do you want help with exactly,spelling or writing a story ? Grow up and maybe your love life will be better...

2007-03-28 09:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by trish b 7 · 0 1

Study English and forget about them all.

2007-03-28 11:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

OMG!! How are we supposed to give you advice if we don't know what you're trying to say?? Maybe its just me and I don't know what you're trying to say. In any case good luck hun!!

2007-03-28 09:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 2 · 0 0

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