I need help from the guys on this one! there's a guy i really like.. and he likes me too, but every time i call him he doesn't answer the phone and he won't return my texts. I talked to his friend that said that my guy visited him and said he's been working hard and studying for mid-terms...ok, i understand his situation, but why can't he call and let me know wats up for just a FEW minutes???
2007-03-28 08:57:04 · 17 answers · asked by pink_candy18@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I MK A GIRL & I M GONNA PUT IT OUT FOR U LIKE THIS : HE HAD THE TIME TO GO TO HIS FRIEND & TELL HIM THAT HE HAS BEEN BUSY , DON'T U THINK A LITTLE PHONE CALL OR A REPLY TO UR TEXT MESSAGE WOULD B A LITTLE EASY FOR HIM , HONEY IF HE IS INTERESTED IN U HE ' LL CREATE A SECOND ON HIS BUSY SCHEDUALE TO CALL U .... DO NOT CALL HIM AGAIN .... HE LL NOTICE THAT & IF HE CARES HE WILL MAKE IT UP TO U , BUT PLLLLZ STOP CALLING & HAVE DIGNITY ... GOOD LUCK .
2007-03-28 09:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by katakitto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm going to answer this one. Girl, some guys are pigs simply put. This guy is really into you but he's a player. A player in the sense that he will not return your calls, text, etc., knowing that you so desperately want to hear from him. It's the attention thing here for him. He knows you will continue to call, etc., until he gives in. When he sees or catches up with you, I bet he always have excuses as to why he couldn't or didn't call. He knows how to play and to try and make O.K. after that, doesn't he. Well, my tactic for you in this one knowing that he's still interested which in your case I think he is, is to to leave him alone. Yeah, leave him alone for awhile!!! You have to discipline yourself and try and do this. Don't text, voice message, IM, email or call him anymore!!! Remember this is what he thrives on for the attention. When these things are cut off or not directed at him, he will feel empty. What do you think he will do next? HE WILL STOP BEING A JERK AND START TO GIVE YOU THE ATTENTION YOU DESERVE!!! Trust me on this one. Take my stupid advise and do this and you will see that it does work!!! Good luck!!
2007-03-28 16:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my information will be very helpful for you. There is a self-help book called "The Rules" By Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. You can find it at the book store, and it will answer all the questions you need to know. I believe that he likes you, but your actions are scaring him away right now. So, hurry to get this book, then you will understand why he is not returning your calls or texts. Good luck.
2007-03-28 16:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First : your opening question makes you sound like a stalker. DO NOT call and text over and over. Let him call you, I know it is tough but you have to. Just from what you wrote, I think you've done enough. Give him a chance to respond, if he doesn't contact you in a week or two you'll know that he doesn't want to talk to you. I hope I'm wrong but you can not hound him. Trust me it will drive him away.
2007-03-28 16:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeeeeeez! Stop being so desperate already! A guy who was even remotely interested in you would pick up the d***ed phone once in a while when you called. Think about it: how the hell long does it take to return a text message, for heaven's sake?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
2007-03-28 16:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...stop being sooo desperate girl. Don't you have a life of your own. Don't call him until he calls you. See how crazy you are when he doesn't return your phone calls just imagine if it was turned around. Make the guy be desperate for your attention.
2007-03-28 16:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys find it difficult to multi-task. We are designed to focus on one thing at one time. What comes first is study-work-job-success. Then girlfriend-romance-marriage. That is how we cope, it is logical but it doesn't mean we don't care.
Women can manage several tasks at once, talking on the phone while watching TV and cooking supper. Good for you!
2007-03-28 16:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's exactly what Violet P said...
He's just not that into you.
Just like Miranda's guy on Sex and the City...when you come to that realization very early on in the 'relationship' it can be liberating...it's not meant to be hurtful......Just very freeing...
2007-03-28 16:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by mochajavalatte25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone. Stop calling and texting him. Basically, he is busy... or he is not interested in you anymore. Just leave him alone and let him approach you now.
2007-03-28 16:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he' s really into his studies. Wait until midterms are over and see how things shape up.
2007-03-28 16:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by bullDoG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋