We have been together since X-mas day. He goes to a private school and plays ball. He lives around 1.5 away from me, but this isnt an issue. At the beginning of our relationship, we used to talk constantly, even when he was all tied up with ball games and school, we always found time to talk at least 2 hours or so. We also had this discussion about being friends cuz he stresses out a lot during ball season, but we ended up together anyway. Since hanging with him again earlier this month ago (hooking up as in spending an entire day together), he starts acting weird. I confronted him about it, and he said he thinks we should just be friends. After being all "i love u" in january, he wants to be friends, cuz it's easier on him for now.I said ok. I told him I'd drive up there in like a week to see 1 of his games and he agreed, last nite i asked him when i should go and he ignores my msg, putting a dent in my planning it out. He's cold!! I don't wanna split completely, help!!
2007-03-28 08:55:39 · 6 answers · asked by Angie L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I will also add that he said he doesn't have time for a girlfriend, yet he hangs with his buddies for hours and plans to go up north to see a game.. without me. And when i tell him I wanna see him, he says he has noooo time.
2007-03-28 09:14:04 · update #1
hes probably found a girlfriend and is afraid to tell you.
2007-03-28 08:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember that guys hate girls who appear desperado. If he wants to be friends, then give him the friendly treatment. If he doesn't reply, don't take it to heart. If he never replies, then don't message him back. I think he is hinting that he doesn't want to be friends...he wants to break it off altogether. And the more desperate you act, the more he will try to pull away from you. Guys love the chase and so that's what exactly you should make him do - chase you. Make him step up his game. Don't even comment on the times you've had together when he talks about it. Just brush it off as "yeah, cool i remember."
Good luck!!! Oh by the way, he made up a really bad excuse to break up with you because if he doesnt have time now, he did he have time before.
2007-03-28 16:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by 3.14159265358979323846 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy killa
u need to understand that he has priorities
i guess he is very into his b ball so he doesnt have the time to invest in a relationship
if u keep pressuring him he will eventually leave
either way u need to ease up a little and confuse him
tell him yeah u want to be friends
pretend that life is better without him
either 2 things could come out he will want u back
and the other he might just let u go
but if he lets u go then he really didnt want u and why will anyone want to be with someone that doesnt want them
2007-03-28 16:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you don't deserve to have your mind played with like that. You've gotta realize that you infact don't deserve that kind of treatment. If he doesn't want you to see him? Then nuts to him, theres a better guy out there waiting for a great girl like you're self and you shouldn't have to settle for less.
Send him an e-mail or something wishing him good luck and then leave it at that. The ball is in his court and if he's too immature to respond then so be it. You don't deserve that type of treatment.
Look in the mirror, realize you're a great girl and have great things to offer, keep your chin up and keep a smile on your face and you'll soon realize that theres a whole pile of guys waiting at your door step wanting you to find them
Good luck
2007-03-28 16:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a man to that to me and it was like he liked having me there when it was convenient for him and I didn't take it any more if he really loved you he wouldn't do this its like he wanted your attention and now that he has it he doesn't need you any more I would move on or you will be waiting for a very long time and that is not fair to you
2007-03-28 16:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should split with him. if he doesn't want to be bothered, then leave him alone. your heart will heal over a period of time.
2007-03-28 15:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋