every little thing he complains about! he is very mean! what could be done about this? he yells and he is a "smart a$$" a;ll the time and he always calls me names and i am a slave to him! why is that? what can be done? thankzx
2007-03-28 08:53:38 · 19 answers · asked by ciarafreakonal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We do need more info....How old are you...What kind of names is he calling you...what slave like things does he have you do?
Where is your Mom when he does these things? Tell us more and then we can help.
2007-03-28 08:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by whaleaway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family counseling is a start. Your local church may provide it at little, to no cost. Or try a few things like throwing him off track. For example, when he says hurtful words, ignore them & immediately change the subject by saying something nice about the weather or his dress attire. Ask him if there's anything you can do for him before he has the chance to order you around. Make it your idea to do fo him. And always smile. Answer his questions with positivity. Don't argue back. It just makes them meaner. If it's something you don't want to deal with, then just agree with him to shut him up.
2007-03-28 16:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by J Doe 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Define "slave" If he does anything physically to you then tell someone but if he doesn't this doesnt sound like much to worry about
2007-03-28 15:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by TheJesterTwist 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could ask him in the most respectful way possible why he is so cynical and why he treats you so mean. Ask him if he loves you because the way he treats you makes you feel like he doesn't.
2007-03-28 15:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really hate to say this, but give him back some of his own medicine... He will realize what he is doing to you, hopefully. If that doesn't work try to talk to him and if that doesn't work, find away to show him how miserable you are because of his behavior.
2007-03-28 16:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow.......sounds like my Dad when I was growing up......Just try to steer clear of him........Now that Im older my Dad has changed for the better......so hopefully yours will too. Hang in there!
2007-03-28 15:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Felicia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
join the club buddy i hate how they think they control me and i have to do everything. try getting mad at him when he yells at you and tell him not to talk to you. he will feel bad and mabey he will lighten up but who nos i mean my dad is the same he is so annoying and he also is a smart ***
2007-03-28 15:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by nina m 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
have you talked to your mom about it if shes around or try to talk to ur dad bout it if that dosent work run away and he will see how much he loves you and needs you
2007-03-28 15:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sara S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to do your chores and take care of your responsibilities and stay out of his way as much as possible!
2007-03-28 15:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to take his finger out and tune into neutral - shud work wonders - good luck
2007-03-28 15:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine_mynx 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋