If you ask a guy if he still loves you and he says yes and then you ask him if he loves this other woman and he says probably, what the crap does that mean? Can you love two women? I really didn't think so. He had to move away for his job and then i ask, well who do you want to be with me or her and he says me, he also tells me that he put a couple of pics of us on his phone. But he says he can't afford to live by himself and he hates her son and says that her kids irritate him so bad. He calls everyday and leaves a message to tell me that he loves me. I just don't know if I can hang on any longer. I love him so very much but I have sat here and waited for a year. You see he had to move away for his job and wanted me to go but i had a child here and could not leave. Now he is trying to get a job closer to here. I sometimes wonder if he is just using her for a place to live. Tell me what you think
2007-03-28 08:51:14 · 14 answers · asked by T B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One-you should give more details. Like was he dating the other woman first
Two- You can love tow people at one time. I still love my ex wife but not in the same way I love my current fiancee
Three- You really need to put your self first in this situation. If you really love him and want him then yeah wait and it my or may not work but he is not what you wanted. Now if you cant see your self with him in 20 years I suggest cutting your loses and run. remember you still have your child to think about.
2007-03-28 09:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that he's freeloading off of this other woman and if he moves near you, then he'll end up doing the same to you. Dump this loser and find someone that loves you and ONLY you! Why would you want to purposely put yourself in a situation that there's no clear solution! If you stick it out w/ this guy, then what makes you think that he's not going to find another woman that you'll have to fight for his undivided attention? He wants to have his cake and eat it too, why not shove it in his face and get some pie? LOL You deserve better, let this guy go and find a better man!
2007-03-28 15:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by sweet libra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he either doesn't love you and won't tell you, is just using her and won't tell you, or he loves you both and won't tell you. There is *something* that he isn't telling you. What is clear is that he needs a roommate.
Ask him what he means by saying that he "probably" loves her. Probably isn't "No," and it leans toward "Yes."
It is possible to love two women at the same time. It also isn't generally accepted in our monogamous culture. Unless you are comfortable sharing his love with someone else, get to the bottom of his "probably" as soon as possible.
2007-03-28 17:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to him about it? but first determine if you trust him or not. if you don't trust him then i don't think you can be with him anymore. on the other hand if you do trust him then maybe you can work it out or at least try to. just remember don't blame yourself, he moved not you. and i don't know either of you but just going by what was mentioned in your question; i'm going to take a wild guess and say that he really does love you. it's all whether or not you trust and believe him anymore.
2007-03-28 15:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by amandamoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very obvious. He cant like to peopel at the same time. Tell him that he has to make a choice and now! Dont let him do whatever he wants with you and that other women. If he really like you he will choose to be with you.
Good luck!
me- best answer
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2007-03-28 16:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by bubblezboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is confused, I believe that you can love more than one person, however I also believe that you can only be in-love with one person. I think that you have to ask your self if he is really what you want, is he worth it, or is there some one waiting to meet you out there?
2007-03-28 15:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by bessentthekris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes aplayer wht wait around theres a lot of nc un atached responsable guys out here
2007-03-28 15:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's definitly crazy. if he is trying to move closer to you, that may be a sign that he really misses you
2007-03-28 15:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him or live a sucky life with him knowing he likes someone else
2007-03-28 15:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love one and lust for the other....just using her for a place to live????hmmmmmm....maybe a place to park his car too....I would think seriously about this situation.....talk about having your cake and eat it too........good luck
2007-03-28 15:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋