Social Isolation?

Question

I really dont know how to describe this , but this is really swful and i think I am pretty unfortunate to go through this trauma .
Let me explan the problem :
1) I have always been anti social person in the sense I never socalise . Infact I dont know why , but humour doesnt come naturally to me and more or less I am a serious person but somewhat sarcastic
2) I cannot look into anyones eyes and speak - I feel there is a sense of grave look in my eyes which often causes displeasure to ppl who I interact with . Frankly I dont feel that I spread an aura of warmth to people . I could scare the hell outta otherswith my piercing eyes . This is a hard fact which I am living with .
3) There is little motivation in me to be friendy with people - to put in different words I dont like to have any emotional attachments with people as much as possible , coz the more I know of someone I sympathize with them !
4)I am extremely conscious about people and feel unfortable with them
Please advise

Has anyone felt like this ? What is this condition ? How do I imrpove ? Find some humour in life ... I always blush and feel heavy
Please gimme ur inputs

Thanks

Answer 1

Your symptoms could indicate a number of possibilities. You need to see a professional for answers and possible solutions to address your problems. And yes, though I cannot diagnose your problem (I am not a doctor), I do feel you have a serious psychological problem of some kind.

Dust in the Wind
Peg

Answer 2

I have almost the same problem. When my boyfriend committed suicide, I stopped talking. First, only with the people on the bus. Then in several of my classes, and there is no part of me that really wants to be social. It seems pointless to me now. Are you depressed at all? Any problems you have, or trama/tragedy happen recently? Those are probably the root of it.

Answer 3

Because you say that you have always been this way, it leads me to believe you could have Asperger's Syndrome. Please do some research and look into this.

Answer 4

I feel that way too.
It is very unpleasant .