Living with a slob!?

Question

I am so fed up with the crap, In the beginning of my relationship with my fiance he got all pissy because I told him if you take out a glass rinse it out and put it in the drainboard its real simple, then things got progressively worse.
He never ever cooked for me, He leaves his crap all over. When I ask him to clean he gives me the excuse that he cant because of his condition with his leg, yet he can get his fat *** up to work and to do things he wants to do. I cook, I clean I chauffer his *** around and all I ask is that he helps me with house chores. Its like asking him to work with the devil. I did the ask nicely routine that dont work either. I heard all men are slobs from previous posts but they havent mentioned *the machismo crap* that I get. Men dont do dishes or do anything. BS go live with your mom then...Ugh I just need to vent help me!!!

Answer 1

Once a slob am afraid always a slob. I was roommates with my best friend out of college. This guy was a complete and total slob. On my days off I would clean, kitchen, living room and bathroom. Upon arriving home from his work he proceeded to kick off his shoes, pull his socks off and toss them on the floor. Drag out his D&D (yes that D&D) books and scatter them all over the floor while he spend endless hours pouring over them and around bedtime just get up and leave all the materials where he left them. At dinner time he would destroy the kitchen making himself his famous pan fried hotdogs, and leave the debris for someone else (who else was there other then me?) The straw that broke the camels back was his cat. His cat (I hate cats btw) Missy is 15 years old and of course was trained to use a litter box. Well, he cleaned the box once maybe twice in a lifetime and eventually the cat began to see my bed as its new litter box. 2 times I warned him that something needed to be done. After the 3rd time I proceeded to march into his room, step up on his bed and use HIS bed as MY personal litter box. I didn't think he'd notice...his room was a landfill of dirty clothing, empty soda cans and old dried up cat turds. I stopped cleaning after that day and moved out shortly after. Were still best friends and joke about my taking a dump on his bed...but I could never live with him again.

Answer 2

Relationships should be 50/50. If this man continues, then yes, I would say tell him To go live with his mother. You are not his mother you are supposed to be the future wife and to me it sounds like you are going to be his maid. I wouldn't put up with it. But it is entirely up to you.

Answer 3

Could pile the stuff he leaves on the floor by the front door.