I am 21yrs old, i live with my sister, work full time job, and is 30 weeks pregnant. me and my baby father do not get along. he hates me for no reason at verbally threathens to kill me i am so scared i dont want him to have any custody of our son. i going to file a restrianing order as the first step to my situation. i just want to if i can file full custody of my son before he is born? he says when the born is the baby will stay with him for three out of the week. Now me as mother i do not feel like i should have to go over his and see my own child. we are not married. and i told him this. (i shouldnt have to go over his and see my own child). and he gets mad. now this has done nothing for me at all he calls me selfish and threathen me verbally. am i wrong for not wantin our son three days with him?
2007-03-28 08:27:38 · 3 answers · asked by sweetheart85 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
I am not going to keep the baby away from him. that i would ever do and that is. just the first couple of weeks until his immune system is strong. and can handle being around cats. he want atake him for 3days 2 weeks after he is born now, any man know that it is not go for a newborn baby while he is still nursing.
2007-03-28 08:32:24 · update #1
Unless you can find a very good reason. A verbal threat might do it. He has every right to see and be with his kid too.
2007-03-28 08:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Reported for insulting my belief 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father has a right to visitation - and he must pay child support. If you feel there is a reason why he shouldn't see the child, you will need to get a lawyer and go to court. Only a judge can suspend the fathers rights.
Forget the restraining order and get a lawyer.
2007-03-28 08:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get some help from a CHURCH...doesn't matter what FAITH you are...they will hide you away and help you.
Most communities also have battered wife counseling, social services, and FREE non-religious help.
If you were my daughter, I'd let the church help you...the guy could FIND your relatives if they hide or help you and he sounds DANGEROUS.
Unfortunately...restraining orders only work for law-abiding people who are not ANGRY...and are HARMLESS...
but then why restrain a harmless guy?
2007-03-28 08:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by uncle_derk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋