We Were standing in line for court very early. We started talking about this and that, and our jobs. I asked her if she was dating or in a relationship. she said she had just gotten out of a 5 year relastionship. then I just asked I f she wanted to maybe hang out sometime if i could call her. She said yes. I got her number and plan on calling her.It's been awhile since I've actaully met someone like this and taken them out. For a first time date, whats a good idea of things to do? I told her we could go to the beach,I know a great pizza place. we could chill and talk. was that lame or does anyone else know of something good. I really like her and Cant stop thinking about her . One little thing though....I'm kind of in a relastionship already and I'v really lost interest in the person i'm with. I felt this way for a long time but because of finances and carreers and our living arangements, i havent expressed these feelings to the girl i live with.
2007-03-28 08:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the living arrangements are I pay rent ,she stays home but her parents own the home i pay rent on. Damn....!!!
2007-03-28 08:25:10 · update #1
the girl is 26, a gorgeous vietnamese girl about 5'5 and Id say about 120lbs with auburn hair and wore little make up.very white teeh andd a gorgeous smile.
2007-03-28 08:33:55 · update #2
well. get out of the first one if it's 'over' before you move on.
someone's gonna get hurt but, the best thing is to resolve the current situation honestly.
2007-03-28 08:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, does this girl that you're in a relationship with know that you're not feeling her anymore? because things can only get worse if you start dating someone else behind her back..that's pretty much cheating. You need to make that clear with the girl you're in a relationship with now before you date this other chick. Find another place to live if i were you...
but in terms of where to take out the girl..i think those are great ideas make sure she doesn't hate pizzas or hate the beach..just don't watch a movie..go to some place chill so that you can talk and get to know each other..and don't do the fancy expensive restaurant...save that for later if things go well.
2007-03-28 15:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by PB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you even go on the date you need to talk to your current girl and let her know what's up.............
As far as the date, I think the beach and pizza are a really good idea for a first date. Actually, the setting will even help you get an idea of what type of girl she is. Meaning, does she expect an expensive dinner and will be turned off by the setting, or does she just like to go with the flow and have a good time.
2007-03-28 15:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by ebony r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First end your relationship before moving on and start off as friends since you both had been in past things so let that be your recovery period from the relationships and 5 years is a long time to be with someone since I hadnt dated in a year since leaving my ex of 5 years. I think going for pizza is not bad at least it's not tacky like fast food.
2007-03-28 15:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the other girl and be honest about how you feel. Then you can persue a new relationship without hurting her any worse than breaking up with her already will. I'm sure you can find a new place, and she'll get the kick in the butt she needs to go get a job and make her own life.
2007-03-28 15:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your going to have to find another place to live, after you dump the other chick. and if you want to see the other girl, you might want to understand a 5 year relationship is not easy to brush off. Get to know her for what she is and let your natural self per sway her, don't be fake.
2007-03-28 15:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call the girl up and just have a nice casual date with her to find out what she's like or whether she is someone you wanna really date. if so, go home and break up with your gf and move out. if this new girl is special enough, you wanna be clean and decent start from the beginning. good luck!
2007-03-28 15:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the current and go for the next. Dont stay with someone because of circumstances ever. Thats bad news
2007-03-28 15:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your now girl friend before going out with this person because if the person finds out she will loose interest in you fast- - Break it off with current GF now good luck you can do it!!
2007-03-28 15:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with your previous girlfriend anymore, then end it, regardless of what might happen with this new girl. It's not fair to her for you to continue to string her along. It would be better for all parties involved if you extricate yourself from your old relationship as soon as possible.
2007-03-28 15:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋