how to get over a guy?

Question

well basically,i like my friend,he's a really good mate.he flirts with me alot and we been through the whole dunken nite kiss and cuddling saga..but we both decided that we were drunk and that we are just friends.he still flirts with me and we are really close.eveyone around as thinks we are made for each other and that we both dig each other but i dunno.i dont think he see's me anything more than a friend. he does flirt like pinch and hit me,play with my hair, slaps my ***! every now and then tells me 2 give him a *******! lol but i just think thats how he is with me,so he tells me....when we first met he tried really hard to pull me but he just wasnt my type,instead we become really good friends.and now. i got feelings for him but i dont think he has otherwise he would have made a move right? and now we are on our easter break so i got two weeks to get over him.i just want to get rid of these feelings and stay friends. but i cant seem to stop thinking about him and really want to!

aaaaah help how do get over him????????

Answer 1

Your confusing yourself with bs society standards. For one, being drunk isn't an excuse to pretend things didn't happen. Thats the truer form of you. People don't turn into different people when their drunk they become more themselves without all the conscioness bs weighing them down. Its a good way to see if someone is the type to cheat on you to because if they'll do it when their drunk they'll eventually do it when their sobor. The other thing is this whole, he wasn't my type thing.... come one thats such bs.... your just twisting your mind with that kinda poision. Fact is friends can easily become lovers and you can't stop it. Its more natureal then this stuff your feeling your mind with. I mean come on are you suppose to love this certian type of guy just because he is welling to just plain lay you? No offense but its your life don't let the chiche' get in the way of whats right. Both of you guys are doing it to each other to.... its not your fault are society doesn't do a good job of explaining how this stuff should go... I mean what can we turn to MTV? Ether way love is all about feelings, you feel this boy, and I gaurntee you he feels you to. Don't do nothing drastic just keep in mind your going feel more with him, the more history you got..... unfornatly if you put up a brinkwall against him your going to hurt both of you guys.... flow with it.... it doesn't seem like he be the type to hurt you in the process... but who makes a better lover a new stranger or an old friend?