2007-03-28 08:20:13 · 34 answers · asked by Need_Help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT
2007-04-05 04:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's different in every relationship. Sometimes people do it on the same night..and there's no relationship afterwards ; one night stand. THen sometimes people wait a real long time because they are more into getting to know each other, connecting, kissing. And lastly, sometimes sex is important to both or the physical attraction is so powerful they can't wait after let's say two weeks or a month. Whatever the two feel most comfortable with. cheers
2007-04-05 08:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her decide. Generally, the longer a girl waits, the better she feels about herself. If you truly love her, you'll respect her. When she is ready, believe me you'll know. Be honest with her though if you are not ready, or in it just for sex.
Some people as they mature decide that it is best to jump into a physical relationship right away, but it can make a bad relationship move too fast, and both end up feeling used.
Talk to her. It is a serious matter and it takes 2 to tango. Be honest, and don't judge.
2007-04-05 08:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first thing you should never do rush in to anything. found out
how she feels about sex. Are you 2 emotionally ready, how you both can have the safest sex. Have you talked about what ifs, u know all those big IF IF Ifs.
Are you 2 just want to do it or you 2 have a longer planes like
marriage. Or you both agree just to have sex with no attachments.
These are things that you 2 should talk about if you 2 love and care for each other.
Bring everything to open space with no allusions, lies, deception totally be HONEST with each other.
2007-04-05 08:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by not fair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a set amount of time. It will depend on how ready you both are, how comfortable you feel with each other, and what your personal level of acceptance is regarding the sexual stuff. When you are both comfortable and ready, it will feel so right, and you'll know it's the right time. But please, don't ever force things. Not only will she not be ready or comfortable, you could also be accused of rape.
2007-04-04 17:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl, your age and your experience. Have you guys been friends before dating? How much do you trust each other? Is this your first time? Hers? If first time take it slow there is no need to rush unless she wants to do it. Just ask her be honest. Honesty is good in a relationship.
2007-04-05 04:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by shopriteismylife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5-10 dates
2007-04-05 06:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by smokinuracing 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well with me being a girl i know my answer will be very different from the guys but you should go out as long as you need to until you are emotionally and physically ready to get sexual.
2007-04-04 18:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long enough to get married. Are you ready to be a father ? No birth control is 100% except keeping your clothes on.
2007-04-05 06:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are crazy about it, you just cant wait...lol
anyways when i met my first boyfriend, before we started deepening our relationship with the sexuality, it was about after 4 months, but everyone is different, in your case, the truth is when you both feel like you trust over each other, then thats' the right time,
she needs to trust you, and you need to trust her, you both need to have that inner feeling,
wait, i have a better way to put it...WHEN YOU BOTH FEEL ITS THE RIGHT TIME THEN GO FOR IT AND NEVER BREAK YOUR BOND. its all about BOTH. not just you or her but both!
2007-04-05 03:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whenever u both feel like you're ready. especially the girl. girls need more time and patience. guys are always ready to get some but the girls tend to be more resistant. but dont pressure her. the key is to wait for her. she will love this. if u really love her you'll wait for her and trust me you wot be sorry. if she knows you're waiting for her she wont want to keep u waiting too long and will try her best to speed it up.
2007-04-05 08:11:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋