about 3 weeks ago i met a girl at a party. we kept in contact and for the first 2 weeks it was going really well. we have alot in common and things were looking good. the last week she has been really off and not wanted to know me. should i forget her or leave it for abit longer to see if things change?
2007-03-28 08:17:47 · 18 answers · asked by pete s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might just be having an off week. Give her a little space and then try again. If she puts you off then you'll know for sure.
2007-03-28 08:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by whaleaway 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LMAO. Freezie has a point. It's probably that time of month and she is well, RAAAWR. Or, (this has happened to me sometimes..) she just stopped liking you becuase maybe there is another guy? If she kinda doesn't sound intrested and doesn't look u in the eyes, then that's the case.
Either way good luck<3
2007-03-28 15:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by cutie.pie_xo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask her about it. Choose a setting where its just the two of you and she can't blow you off. If she doesn't want to talk about it and still acts that way, I'd say go you separate ways. Chances are, there has been a misunderstanding between the two of you and you have no idea what you did wrong.
2007-03-28 15:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by cindy h 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely not look eager. Try taking your distance, girls like a good chase and if she doesn't chase you then she must have lost interest, found interest elsewhere or just has to much on her plate. You never know her reasoning, but normally when a girl backs off, it's because she has lost interest. Good luck to you.
2007-03-28 15:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say just ask her. you dont have anything to lose, since you two aren't technically "together". If she's not interested anymore, at least you would know and could move on, and if she was still interested and just kinda treating you like you dont matter, then she will know that you are not going to put up with that kind of stuff and she should either learn to be nice or move on!
2007-03-28 15:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by brittanybubbles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her some space but dont just be done with her. You have no idea what could be going on in her life. Give her some space and some time for awhile then just let it go if she doesn't come back to you.
2007-03-28 15:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would forget about it. If she is still interested she will contact you if not then there are plenty of other girls. After all you don't want to look desperate
2007-03-28 15:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by skyler 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some girls are just players like most guys are....remember that before you start to chase her . but if you think she's different than wait it out let her know that your still open to talk. or better yet ask her out on a date, if she says no well than you got your question solved.
2007-03-28 15:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by jessica c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, one of the best things you can do in this situation is back off. Let her miss you. You're probably smothering her.
2007-03-28 15:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never know what women feel because they won't tell you and 'expect' you to just KNOW. Makes sense huh? Not worth losing sleep over.
2007-03-28 15:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋