I am a bi female - so if you are not into that pls go elsewhere.
I have a bf right now, but I have a holiday coming up which I planned with a girl I had a fling with (while me and my bf were apart).
He does not know about the fling and is not too keen on me sleeping with other women right now (he caught me cheating with a gf).
He has no idea I had a fling with this woman and thinks she is straight. She is not too keen on him coming (she has a bf).
If I decide to go I know what will happen between her and I.
If I tell my bf that I will not go he may get suspicious about things.
I am dying to go as I always have a great time with her.
What would you do?
2007-03-28 08:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's weird, I'd love it if my gf had fun with another girl.
I'd say its cheating if you plan on having sex with her, but if it is JUST sex, then it is up to you how far you want it to go.
You might want to consider asking your bf if you can have sex with her. If he says no, then don't do it. If he says yes, then have fun!!
2007-03-28 08:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, you just keep telling all of these lies and half truths, and now you're caught up in them. go tell your bf, you had a fling with this girl. Ask him what he wants you to do. If he doesn't want you to go, and you want to go and break up with him, you can go on your vacation with your girlie and you'll be fine. But you should be honest.
2007-03-28 15:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r not married
and all
so u should atleast be nice and return the favor
hey i think u r from the UK
i will be going there in a few weeks
needs some advice
and it wouldnt hurt to make new friends out there
care to chat
email me peterfl999@yahoo.com
2007-03-28 15:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is what you believe and feel as a bi, you should talk to your bf about an open relationship which means you're free to sleep with other girls/guys while dating him. i have seen bi couples doing that and it's not a problem for them. unless double standard is your problem, then it's more complicated then.
2007-03-28 15:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel if you have strong feelings for her to it go if he thinks she's str8 then you have no problem getting caught its just 2 friends goin on a trip if ur gonna feel guilty then dont go.
2007-03-28 15:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be honest with the men you date and tell them straight up that you love being with women and that you don't want to be faithful with one person that you like to play...Nothing wrong with being honest and upfront with all parties..
2007-03-28 15:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and have a good time. He'll get used to it sooner or later.
2007-03-28 15:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him understand that you love him, but you have to be able to hang out with other friends.
2007-03-28 15:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋