what can i do to be more spontaneous? any tips
2007-03-28 08:05:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want a plan for becoming more spontaneous?
This is a joke, right?
2007-03-28 08:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, if I told you how to be more spontaneous in bed and you did it when you were in bed, then it wouldn't be spontaneous now would it?
2007-03-28 15:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by ca_oss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the bedroom. Try the kitchen at noon on a Saturday.
2007-03-28 15:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Eric V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you normally wouldn't do baby ... spice it up ... maybe let her come home to you wearing something sexy ... or cook a nice aphrodisiac dinner for her and then have a naughty bedroom romp ... check out some sex shops ... they have some pretty cool stuff ... I guess its hard to give advice since I don't know your lady ... but you know her ... so check out some online sites ... chat with some folks ... maybe you can get a few good ideas that way ... hope it all works out honey!
2007-03-28 15:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she's asking for some kink. Break out some silk scarves and a blindfold. Be creative! Have fun!
2007-03-28 15:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Fierce Lioness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not plan it.
by asking this question and planning to be spontaneous, you are failing miserably. just be a little more adventurous, and do stuff you wouldnt normally do, in places and at times you usualy wudnt.
2007-03-28 15:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Blind fold her: then tease her senses - her sense of smell and taste by feeding her soft, slurpy fruit, then plant intense wet kisses on her body, then give her lots of oral - tease her and don't allow her to cu m too early. Using a finger/dil do and tongue is delicious.
Then thrown her legs wide open and give it to her in lots of different positions.
good luck
2007-03-28 15:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
duh...I don't think you can be "spontaneous" if you have it planned....Perhaps she is saying, "wilder," or "freakier." She is saying she is tired of the same ole same ole. Use your imagination...role play, etc. Good luck
2007-03-28 15:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what have you tried? try somthing that will add a bit of fun into ay relationship e.g get toys costumes be romantic flowers on bed candles, oral sex that kinda stuf perked my sex life up
2007-03-28 15:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by jonny_b_89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she means do things she doesn't expect, try something different. always ease into it though, don't take her by surprise especially if you're not 100% sure she'll be into it. You don't wanna scare the girl! :)
2007-03-28 15:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋