I pay for everything bc my boyfriend is in school and doesnt make alot at his job, Is it right that I pay for everything!?? He seems to have enough to go out and drink a few times a month with his friends but when it comes to me Hes always broke.
2007-03-28 08:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by Sface 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't loosen up the old wallet I'd dump his broke azz.
2007-03-28 08:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking its probably because you have had enough! or maybe that little voice in the back of your mind is setting off all kinds of alarms!
You dont have to stay in a relationship where you are not happy! We all like to be taken out to lunch or recieve flowers once in a while... it doesnt mean that you are a bad person if you desire this.. its normal!
If you are not happy with a man who is 'mooching' off you then you should leave, there are plently of guys out there who are still gentlemen!
If he has money for his friends and not for you then he should stay with his friends!
Tell him he has to set priorities! "Me or your friends" (only do this if you are ready to risk him chosing his friends over you)
It all comes down to what you feel...
Have you had enough?
Or are you willing to pay for him for the rest of your relationship?
2007-03-28 17:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's personal choice on your part, I dated a man once who made less money than me and I felt goos spending money on me, I don't think women in this day and age should expect men to pay for things just because they are male. If it offends you though and makes you unhappy then approach him on the issue and let him know to throw you a bone once in a while. I personnaly pay for everything I want and pay for others because i enjoy doing so.,
2007-03-28 15:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, you are spoiling him and he is taking advantage of you doing the spending. You need to let him pay for you. Don't bring money on dates, tell him you don't have enough. Spend your money wisely on yourself. Buy yourself jewelry and nice clothing instead to impress him. That's me. Never spend on a man, unless it is really necessary, enjoy it on you and if he decides to buy you things too, then you are now lucky to date him. Otherwise dump him and find something good.
2007-03-28 15:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the waiter/waitress come next time, don't pick up the bill. just smile and look at him. if he says anything, just say it really cute like 'you know it's so nice to be treated sometimes by your beloved bf'...something like that. if he refuses and make a big deal out it, he's cheap. then dump him. it's okay when guys are frugal but if they don't treat their gf at all, it shows one not so good of a quality: money means more to them than you are to them!
2007-03-28 15:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel spending your funds on him...I would prefer it at least be equal...I dont mind paying, but not all the time...But i can see that it would be wrong if he had funds to pay for him and his friends and not you, i would feel used....
2007-03-28 15:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a genius? if he is, one day hell be makin money and payin bills when ur married, if hes a regular joe, tell him to make you feel loved or your out. take him on free dates like walks or the park, if he gets bored he is just using you!
2007-03-28 15:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sface, please take my advice, QUIT spending your money on him. I did this for 20 + years and received nothing (ever). If he has money to party with his buddies then he should have money to take you out too.
2007-03-28 15:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So make him pay for something. Pay for yourself and he pays for his.
2007-03-28 15:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Niddy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy him things then LOL. I suppose its not wrong unless you absolutly despise doing it. and its making you hate him for it.
2007-03-28 15:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋