I have been involved with a man for a year and a half and that was during the time he was living with his girlfriend. Now that he has left her, we are together and I am loving every minute of it. At times, when we are together at home just the two of us, I think he's easily bored. He will let me know if I did not pay him enough attention. Sometimes, I feel like now that I have him, I got to make sure I keep him. I don't think I've changed any, but I guess when you think about it.........a little. I tell him, "I love him" everyday especially when he leaves the house or after talking on the phone. I try to make him more romantic by giving me a kiss when he sees me or tell me he loves me first sometimes. He acts like he doesnt have a romantic bone in his body. He's getting better. I cook dinner at least 4 days a week for him. We use to text each other throughout the day, but that has gotten very limited.
To all Happy Couples:
If you have good answers to my question please let me know
2007-03-28 08:01:47 · 16 answers · asked by roc33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everything u say i feel(same man since 99and he was someone elses )
my advise GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS SEXUALLY u don't have to worry bout him getting it somewhere else just like how u got him, be passive yet strong an think about what he told u bout his LAST girlfriend and don't do that
2007-03-28 08:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend he was w/ before you probably did the same as you trying to keep him happy. If he cheated on her a yr and a half what makes you think your any different? I am happy in my marriage because I know I can trust him. I do not need to perform any tricks to keep him happy. For a yr and a half you played the other woman. What goes around comes around, you deserve the anxiety. Women should know if a man is taken and is willing to cheat that the man is scum and the "other woman" that participates in such a horrible thing is just as wonderful as the man.
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2007-03-28 15:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by LUCY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...this guy that's now with you babe?...he's still getting over the last woman in his life reasonably. He's sorta kinda done you a disservice by being with you so quickly after his breakup with his ex hun. I say people need to put some time and reflection on themselves before taking another leap of faith with somebody new really. Why drag your old stuff into your new stuff? That's just simply ludicrous thinking to me anyways! I'm certain you're both wonderful individuals babe...but understand that's what your guy is seemingly going through mentally right now anyways. Let the dust settle before you move into new relationships...period. It'll just mask anxiety about the last relationship if you don't. Sound sensible babe?
2007-03-28 15:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See don't worry about the romantic things now. Worry about making him happy.
My b/f of 5 years and I have lived together for 3 years. I worry I don't talk to him enough. Or worry that things are getting boring.
You can just got out on a date her or there still.
I like to buy cards every long while leave it in his car just so he don't forget. We don't say I love you anymore we just know it.
And our future involves us together.
You need to make sure you stand at his side and behind him.
Actions speak louder than words.
Do something with him he likes.
Play his silly games even if you know you'll lose against him every time.
Its still fun. The little things count.
2007-03-28 15:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by afj60 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you've heard this one before but if he was with you for a year and a half and he was living with his girlfriend then what makes you think he is going to be true to you? He might be doing it already. Think about it.
He might be happy having one woman at home and one on the side. Do some detective work and I hope it's not true. Good Luck.
2007-03-28 15:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that making a man happy means a little sacrifice (for lack of a better word) on our part. Most men sacrifice a little by showing us love with flowers and romance even if its not really their cup of tea. Being a friend to your man means laying off so much of the romance and share some of his interests and needs much the same as they do for us.
2007-03-28 15:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by cindy h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not worry to much about the txting , that's because you catch up on every day things now that your living together . you have to seem interested in everything he says even if your not, make sure when he wants to talk about something that annoys him you listen , be playfully around him , laugh with him and try to make him laugh , try not to fly of the handle when anything he does annoys you .
2007-03-28 15:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by paula luvs elvis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Food rocks. Cooking for someone shows a lot of love.
2007-03-28 15:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by onefineham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's get this straight: You were sneaking around with this guy while he was involved with another woman, and now you want to know how to hold on to him? What goes around comes around, girlfriend.
2007-03-28 15:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being there for each other keeps a guy happy. Nothing more.
2007-03-28 15:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋