I was just trying to get a concensus to prove a point and that point is if you women found an attractive wealthy man that would have you, personality would very rarely come into the picture. I believe the immediate attraction would be to the money and the chiseled abs, good teeth, etc. If Bob Smith though, heavier set, kind of goofy looking dude from Mobile Alabama, who was a plumber, made a max of $25,000 a year for the rest of his life, BUT was the most sincere, sensitive, honest, giving and romantic man on the planet, then you girls would take Don Juan anyday; who beats you, cheats on you, is rude and vulgar, and tells you what an unattractive person you are. Just a question ladies, dont get too mad. Just be honest.
2007-03-28 07:53:38 · 13 answers · asked by B Rock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HONESTLY....I'd choose Bob Smith..i mean if you are saying that this hot looking guy is beating on me, abusing me and being vulgar towards me..i'd be stupid if I stayed with him..HELL F'in no...his attractiveness just went down the drain..he may be good looking and wealthy but if he has the worst personality cheating and abusing..that does not make him attractive. Women look for men they can have a good time with...unless a girl is a stupid golddigger..she'd go for the attractive wealthy cheating man. but I would think that most girls would go for the other guy...PLUS..women make money too...it's not like all women are dependent on men to make the money..You've given two extreme points..i'm not saying that women do not go for good looks or a man with a great career or a man who makes good money..i'd be lying if i said it didn't matter..but these are just mere qualities that some women take into account..it might not be high on their list, but it's something that some consider.. Anyway, I think a charismatic guy can win over a woman over a wealthy cocky disrespectful guy anyday. POINT IS: WE'RE NOT ALL GOLDDIGGERS and PERSONALITY DOES COUNT. I think a woman can be attracted to a not so hot guy so long as his personality makes up for it.
2007-03-28 08:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by PB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attractive. I litteraly don't give a f*ck about wealth and stuff.
2014-07-13 03:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on the descriptions you gave, i'll take the guy who you know will always be able to fix the toilet. and plumbers make much more than $25,000 / year
2007-03-28 15:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way! I took the kind, loving, middle class math nerd and have been delightfully happy for 18 years and counting.
2007-03-28 14:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by texas_mom39 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer the broke yte sincere guy anyday.... If he's rich yet abusive, he gotta go
2007-03-28 15:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by ì ɠσт α вìɠ єɠσ, sσ ὠнαт! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a good job and i am able to spoil myself any time. i don't want a guy who beats me tells me i am worth nothing. when i know it's false. I would want the guy who will treat me right and respect me and love me for me. that's me being real.
2007-03-28 15:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for a attractive sweet man!(he don't have to be rich jus not POOR)
2007-03-28 14:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hot guys are the best...espessialy when they have a great personality...rich doesnt matter
2007-03-28 15:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by plastic.hearts.&&.paper.smiles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so wrong! The immediate attraction isn't money when you don't know if he has any.
2007-03-28 14:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st - Looks, 2nd - personality and a definite 3rd and last - Money
2007-03-28 14:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋