I just broke up with this guy that I loved. He broke my heart, but I keep hearing thing about his home state and thinking that remind me of him. I was doing so well and now it seems that every time I turn around I see him in other people or his face just pops in my head. Why does this happens and how to stop it?
2007-03-28 07:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you still love him and its not easy to move on trust me i know.You need to stay busy or meet new people.Talk to your friends they will help keep your mind off him.These things happen and as much as it hurts life does go on.Its always very hard in the beginning but it will get better.I promise it'll get better.In the end you will thank god you did split up from him cause you obviously werent right for each other.The visions will go away and so will the pain in due time.I was with a guy for 9 years and one day just like that i finished it because of some things that are personnel but it took maybe a month or 2 and that was the end of that.I met someone else and am happier now than i have ever been
2007-03-28 07:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 19:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by albano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that always happens when you break up with someone,it's very normal especially when you loved or liked that person very much. The only way to stop it,is with time and remember why you guys broke up. I've been close to people like that and whenever 'our song' plays, I instantly either break out somehow or I have to turn it off or down because I'm thinking of the person way too much and it's too heartbreaking. I'm not gonna lie. It'll take a few months to go away, depending on how long you were going out with this guy. It feels like you still love him, but give it a few months and then re-think it, k? I know how you feel. Even if you break up with the person, you may feel more heartbroken than the other person. Your teen years are some of the hardest you'll ever go through. You need to separate yourself from this guy. You need to treat yourself to something special. Yeah, you'll wish he was there and you won't have the best of times, but it's a start, and soon enough, he'll be part of your life, but he won't take up as many pages in your life story. You can still be friends with him after you get over your feelings with him. It'll be alright.
2007-03-28 07:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by AmericanEagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl sorry to tell you but i think that you are in love, it will be a minute before you stop feeling like that but you be alright one day you will get over him because right now you still have feelings for that person.
2007-03-28 07:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its happening cuz u still think about him a lot. just try to fill your days with fun and interesting things
2007-03-28 07:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It keeps happening to you because your not over him yet
2007-03-28 07:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kathleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
u should change your avatar before she loses all hope to live...
anyway, forget cause if u r still thinkin bout him, u can bet he's not thinkin bout u
2007-03-28 07:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz you are still in love with him...move on let him go
2007-03-28 08:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by ali03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not over him yet.but be strong & you'll get through.
2007-03-28 07:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋